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I may have posted this in the wrong forum before. I posted it into the workplace spot.

 

o, long story short, there's a guy at work. I think he's interested in me, He's touched me a couple times. (twice in the same night actually), he gave me his number with a smile.

 

I've texted him, but he won't text back. Should I call him?! He smiled when I asked for his number, and without skipping a beat, he wrote it down while he was at work. I don't want him to think I'm not interested...

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I dont think calling him would be a great idea, you don't want to sound desperate. You did message him after all which shows some kind of interest. Id suggest you speak to him at work.

 

I dont know, make a joke about him not replying or disregard the message all together, suggest getting a coffee in your free time, call him after work to set a time and date?

 

Best of luck

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Yeah I don't think I'll call him, I go back and forth.. "well he did give me his number, maybe he's not a big texter".. so I may make a joke about it at work, we'll see,

 

yeah maybe coffee, or I was thinking maybe a movie or something that he'd like to see...:love:

Or I could also offer him a ride home from work.

Other thing is, he'll be alone on christmas, and that just breaks my heart. I want to do something for him so he won't be alone, but I'm not sure.

We do have a friendly rivalry going right now with football. He's a packer's fan and I'm a seahawks fan. lol.. :)

 

It's just as well, I'm really sick right now anyway..

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I dont think calling him would be a great idea, you don't want to sound desperate. You did message him after all which shows some kind of interest. Id suggest you speak to him at work.

 

I dont know, make a joke about him not replying or disregard the message all together, suggest getting a coffee in your free time, call him after work to set a time and date?

 

Best of luck

 

Thank you Tonic!!

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Yeah I don't think I'll call him, I go back and forth.. "well he did give me his number, maybe he's not a big texter".. so I may make a joke about it at work, we'll see,

 

yeah maybe coffee, or I was thinking maybe a movie or something that he'd like to see...:love:

Or I could also offer him a ride home from work.

Other thing is, he'll be alone on christmas, and that just breaks my heart. I want to do something for him so he won't be alone, but I'm not sure.

We do have a friendly rivalry going right now with football. He's a packer's fan and I'm a seahawks fan. lol.. :)

 

It's just as well, I'm really sick right now anyway..

 

Im sure he would appreciate the company for this festive season, i know if i were in his shoes i would. But yeah the choices are endless and just do what you feel is best :)

 

Hope you are feeling better soon :)

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Im sure he would appreciate the company for this festive season, i know if i were in his shoes i would. But yeah the choices are endless and just do what you feel is best :)

 

Hope you are feeling better soon :)

 

Thanks Tonic! I'm sure he would really appreciate the company! I was going to ask him today as I was leaving, but earlier in the day he wasn't' talking..so I just put it as it's really busy at work, but after I was off,

 

I found out his mom's in the hospital So, I left him alone. Tonight's not a good night for that. I did buy him a little present though.

 

It's a winter cold, but I'm spending all day tomorrow resting. :p

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