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Why do women/men hide or deny their feelings when they like(crush)/love(know the person well) someone? I am just curious because to read some responses.

 

In my younger days, I would like a girl and ask her out, she would date me/become my girlfriend but then I would regret it and get scared even though I like the girl a lot. Sometimes I would ask the woman out, but hope she would turn me down. I don't feel that way any more but I was wondering about some of the reasons for doing this?

 

It's strange behavior indeed. In fact, I have had women do the same thing to me. Does it really have to do with FEAR of falling for the other person? Is it lack of confidence? Insecurity?

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The fear of rejection is probably what it is. Maybe being insecure too. The thing is that even though you have feelings for this person you are wondering will this person like me the way I like them or will I just get turned down. :confused:

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