Starnette83 Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 do you love her? if you been with her for 10 years u should step up and either be with HER AND ONLY HER (move in) or LET HER GO!!! i think 10 years is enough time to know if u wanna be with someone (marriage)..if not taht sucks, and i feel bad for her, i think that if u dont wanna move in with her and get married let her go so she can find someone who will move in with her and MARRY HER!! but then dont go crying to her when this happens!
CurlyIam Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 People change their mind everyday about everything. How do you call men leaving their wife and children after 20 years of marriage no matter what the reason? If you're not SURE, if you don't know for SURE, you shouldn't let yourself be pushed into ANYTHING. YEah, it is lame that after 10 years he dosn't know, but then people stay in relationships for so many reasons and not everyone had the courage to do what had to be done. I sure don't always do the right thing. I have even stayed in a ' and a half years relationship KNOWING deep down inside I'll never marry the guy. HAd I not had the chance to leave the country I think I would have still been with him, stuck in the same spot. IT's so easy to be judgemental ! Real life decisions however are taken based on entirily different reasons ! To the original poster: try not to lie to yourself. That's the best advice that goes through my mind right now.
CurlyIam Posted March 27, 2005 Posted March 27, 2005 Sorry, that was 4 years and a half relationship !
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