DBryYES Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 I have had a history of being on the receiving end of controlling games by girls. I try to do things to accommodate them because I want to be understanding and fair. I don't think I am owed a relationship but I can't tell when someone is running game on me and playing around with me. How do I if someone is being genuine with me or just jerking me around? If a girl is just ****ing with me, how do I go about it without being the bad guy in the situation? Better question, how do I get more respect when dealing with girls?
truth_seeker Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 Sometimes it takes experience to understand who you are dealing with, ie, a good girl versus a bad girl. I think a good test is being a jerk. If you're cold and a jerk to a girl and she comes chasing after you, then that tells you she's a desperate idiot who is all about attention... now, if she calls you out on it, and walks away from you, to me that is a person with some dignity and backbone who takes a relationship seriously, and perhaps even cares about you. If this happens, then you find her and apologize. Usually a woman who is into you will forgive you. Don't feel bad about being the bad guy. Be mature. Do what you feel is right. If a woman is a bitch, then she's a bitch and can shove it. Don't lose sleep over some bimbo who can be replaced. Live life knowing there is always another woman out there... and one just for you. 3
Gloria25 Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 I don't know what to tell you, cuz, I've been dissed and/or dumped for manipulators, slugs, the town "ho".... It seems like some guys just like to be lied to. When they meet someone who treats them right, they don't trust it I guess. Or maybe the manipulators and slugs are better at playing games or being damsels in distress? I guess I got no game.
Author DBryYES Posted December 20, 2014 Author Posted December 20, 2014 Sometimes it takes experience to understand who you are dealing with, ie, a good girl versus a bad girl. I think a good test is being a jerk. If you're cold and a jerk to a girl and she comes chasing after you, then that tells you she's a desperate idiot who is all about attention... now, if she calls you out on it, and walks away from you, to me that is a person with some dignity and backbone who takes a relationship seriously, and perhaps even cares about you. If this happens, then you find her and apologize. Usually a woman who is into you will forgive you. Don't feel bad about being the bad guy. Be mature. Do what you feel is right. If a woman is a bitch, then she's a bitch and can shove it. Don't lose sleep over some bimbo who can be replaced. Live life knowing there is always another woman out there... and one just for you. I can try to be a jerk but it's hard because my natural tendencies to do the right thing shine through. I just have to be un afraid of losing a girl. It's a confidence thing.
truth_seeker Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 Young guys (16-29) and immature guys (any age) are all about getting laid and banging hot chicks. Town whores are easy and some are hot. You put an easy, hot girl in front of a guy and just about every guy is going to hit it or try to hit it. As for women... some behave like men. I think women who grew up with no sisters, and only brothers, tend to behave like a guy. I knew a girl like this. Constantly with different men and using them up with no regard... just gross. Another thing to watch out for is a scorned woman. A friend of mine got together with a woman whose ex-husband left her for another woman. She's never gotten over it - probably never will - and she takes it out on my buddy. He lets it slide, but I see it and it's horrible.
truth_seeker Posted December 20, 2014 Posted December 20, 2014 I can try to be a jerk but it's hard because my natural tendencies to do the right thing shine through. I just have to be un afraid of losing a girl. It's a confidence thing. The trick is not to care so much until you know they're legitimately into you... that's why you got to test them, unfortunately.
Author DBryYES Posted December 20, 2014 Author Posted December 20, 2014 The trick is not to care so much until you know they're legitimately into you... that's why you got to test them, unfortunately. I have always been a straight forward, non beat around the bush type of guy. These games are very confusing to me and have went nowhere in my experience 1
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