stacygordon234 Posted December 19, 2014 Posted December 19, 2014 I've known this guy for years..not well. I seen him around and thought he was cute, we got talking a few months later and hooked up a few times when out in a club if we ever ran into each other. At the time he asked me for my number and text me a few times but that was about it and I wasn't really looking for anything else. He dissapeared for a few years travelling and I forgot he existed, I've since had a child with someone else who I am recently seperated from. A few months ago I bumped into this guy on a night out and we got chatting we ended up talking about my relationship and I drunkenly told him it wasn't working and I was ending things, he asked me to go home with him and I declined. I seen him a few times since this and he always asked me back to his but I never went until one night he was having a party and I went. We chatted all night and got on really well, he said he wanted us to start seeing each other and to meet up sober a few days later. I agreed. I heard from him that night when I went home then not again until the day we'd arranged to meet up, I assumed he wasn't going to get in contact so wasn't expecting him to message to meet. I was unsure of wether to meet up with him or not so didn't get back to him for a couple hours..but then he didn't respond. The next day he replied saying he thought I was blowing him off when I didn't respond so went out with friends and asked if I was free that night...i said no but could meet him the next again night after id had a meal with friends. He seemed ok with this, so that day I text to see if he was up for meeting..i got no response. I left it at that. This was 5 or 6 months ago. During this time I again forgot all about him and deleted his number until last week when I woke up to a text sent in the early hours of the morning from an unknown number I responded to ask who it was. He replied with who is this so I ignored it and he called. I wasn't sure who it was and he said he didn't know who I was then apparently suddenly realised and explained that he'd had a text from me with my new number so was responding...the only text I have sent out with my number was months ago so told him this and he said he'd lost his phone and not long got it back..i found it pretty unbelievable and put it down to a drunken text as in the message he made it clear he knew who I was. Anyway after the call to ask what I was doing that evening I said I was unsure he replied a few hours later saying he was just back from being with friends and I could come over if I wanted. I declined as I already had plans with a friend by then and said he could come to mine after I was done. He said ok. He came over later, wed both had some drinks by this time and had a few more when he got here, we stayed up late chatting and got on really well again. We kissed and eventually went to bed. He never tried to take it any further than kissing and started to tell me he really liked me, and liked me too much. He was saying other things pointing towards us seeing each other and said there was something he wanted to say to me but was really nervous. He brought up the time he didn't reply when we were to meet up and was starting to tell me why and said it was to do with him really liking me then still couldn't come out and say the thing he wanted to say to me. That night he told me some personal things about his family and stuff he said he'd told no one. We fell asleep. In the morning I woke him and said my ex would probably be turning up to collect our child (who was staying at my parents house) he asked if he's be bothered about him being there and I said I didn't know and that he might be. We got up and watched a bit tv he showed no sign of leaving but was also acting a bit distant I said my ex had text to say he was coming over. He asked if I wanted him to leave and I said it was probably best. He got up and basically stormed out. I text him a few hours later saying I wasn't sure what had pissed him off but apologised for whatever it was, I then said I found his behaviour confusing and that I didn't really have time for it. I didn't really expect a response and never got one, until last night, exactly a week after the first text and again sent in the early hour of the morning. It was a response to my last text something along the lines of ye cool. I was half asleep when I read it when I woke up so just quickly responded not knowing what it was about asking what was cool. I haven't heard from him since. I do quite like this guy but really don't know what his deal is. Does he like me? Is he just playing me cos he's bored? He doesn't seem to be only after sex as he hasn't tried anything. I'm just confused and am considering just deleting his number again and blocking it as I cant be bothered with a guy who just wants to play games.
Diezel Posted December 19, 2014 Posted December 19, 2014 During this time I again forgot all about him and deleted his number until last week when I woke up to a text sent in the early hours of the morning from an unknown number I responded to ask who it was. He replied with who is this so I ignored it and he called. I wasn't sure who it was and he said he didn't know who I was then apparently suddenly realised and explained that he'd had a text from me with my new number so was responding...the only text I have sent out with my number was months ago so told him this and he said he'd lost his phone and not long got it back..i found it pretty unbelievable and put it down to a drunken text as in the message he made it clear he knew who I was. Um, this is where I stopped. Yes, he is playing you, like a fiddle.
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