Huge void how to fill

[Lightmetoday]

Hey people.

I just broke with someone i had feelings for years, we were close friend, unfortunately she did'nt feel anything for me. So we broke up. Kind of bad break up. Anyway , i i just dont know how could i remain friend with her when i was feeling more than that... Currently i am grieving badly. It was like she wanted me to have such feelings & when the time came , she said she feel nothing. So its the end. I feel very empty , very sad , tears . There was a time she said me we are meant to be together but now she has no feelings. I need some help moving on, how rude & hurtful it is to break someone, why do we humans have feelings for each other???

[Satu]

If you want to feel better you need to adopt total no contact. That means no direct contact, no indirect contact via third parties, no social media.

 

Anything else will just prolong the pain.

[Lightmetoday]

Yes i just uninstalled the messenger, i dont know what she will be feeling now, I just left her , I had to , She was honest with me , These feelings were inside me not her , so i am grieving in the hope that feelings will go away. I hope it happens soon

[d0nnivain]

There will be an initial period of grieving. You just have to experience the sadness.

 

Meanwhile, keep yourself busy, surround yourself with positive / supportive people & perhaps rearrange your living space so not everything reminds you of her.

[Lightmetoday]

At the moment i am feeling very low, feeling like all the energy in my body is exhausted, Its a very bad feeling, I am very empathic person, I cared a lot for her, but anyway it has ended.

I am trying to get religious, I am thinking every positive effect this will have on my life, We were not meant to be together thats why it happened. I deserve someone better. Someone who will have same feelings for me , Who will care for me the same way i do. Its just a hope , But its the only thing that is keeping me alive.