eachisown Posted December 19, 2014 Posted December 19, 2014 We were together 2 years. So she ended things 2 weeks ago because she started to like someone else who lives closer to her. Shes at Uni and I have work placement this year. It broke my heart and I have been a mess. The thing is we were best friends before we got together and we always said we would be friends regardless. But Im not sure I can do it. I can be fine but as soon as she texts me or we speak on the phone my heart is racing and aching and I get emotional and cant stop thinking about her and the guy she chose over me. Tomorrow we agreed she would come visit for a couple days before xmas. I am starting to think it is a bad idea, and that I should be doing the whole no contact thing. I tried it immediately after the breakup but I was alone and couldnt do it but I may need to. I feel like she is poison to me right now. I love her and shes my best friend but if she even texts me, im in pieces I dont think its healthy for me. Xmas I can see as chance to make a clean break and seeing her tomorrow for the first time in 2 weeks is not going to help me out right? Im dependent on her for happiness and she doesn't want me, I know thats wrong and I need to break out of this way of thinking? Any advice is appreciated thank you. TL;DR Should I be doing the whole no contact thing to get over her, even though we are best friends?
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