crazychick Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 Does anyone notice that a lot of the answers to problems posted are - give it space, don't call him, walk away from it, have more self respect? Are we all in love with or dating the same people? We've got the guy that avoids confrontation by ignoring the girl that just wants to know what is going on. We have the girl that has all sorts of things going on in her personal life that can't commit to the guy that just wants to take care of her. We got the girl dating an addict, but she really thinks she can change him. Or the guy that was hurt before in the past and doesn't know how to move on with the new person in his life. We all spend so much time trying to figure these people out, to understand, to know what they are going thru. We ask for advice from all sources, partly because we want the help, and partly because we want to know if we are going crazy or is the way we are feeling normal. We give the people we love the benefit of the doubt over and over and over again, because that is what love is. What we all really need to do is to give ourselves more credit, realize that we are all worth the same love, trust and respect that we put into a relationship and that we should get back what we give. That's a hard thing to do - believe me I know, but I am going to try that. What I really want to say to everyone is - thank you. You take the time to respond to these anonymous people and help validate what we are feeling and help each other move forward in situations that are extremely difficult. Relationships are hard and they do require work, but if you do it right it can be good. I hope so anyway. But you guys with your good advice, you make me believe it. So thanks again.
alphamale Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 you're welcome CRAZYCHICK, we try to do our best...
blue_eyes18 Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 I would like to say thanks, also. I have had some of the best advice given to me from LS. I just really appreciate the time ya'll haven taken with me also to help me out. It means alot.
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