supergirl7777 Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 Ok so here it goes, my boyfriend of over a year broke my heart he told me that he wasent in love with me anymore that he was confused and that he needed freedom. I dont want to seem as being the perfect one either, i mean i would constantly start the fights but i had a reason to and he never understood me, he never stood up for me to his friends (just one friend) the rest i was cool with. This girl that was his so called frien was his very first girlfriend back in elementary quite along time ago, thing is she has a very bad reputation for stealing boyfriends i mean she was even in love with her own sisters boyfriend. My ex and her started hanging out a lot one day he told me to meet him after school, after my rehersal because i'm in the schools drama department, so i waited and he never showed up, i called his house and he wasent home so i finally decided to call his cell phone and he answered he said that he was with some friends at the movies, i was crying because i was so worried i thought something had happened to him. So over the phone he sounded weird i told him to call me back and so he did. He told me he had gone to the movies with two friends that girl and some guy named george, i told him that how could he do that i mean he stood me up an he knew that i didnt like her she didnt like me either, so we broke up. The following day he came to my house and we talked things over so i forgave him, thing that i didnt know is that the girl would show up at chool to tell me a bunch of crap, she told me that it was only her and him that went, He LIED, HE ALWAYS LIED. ok so i let that go but ok we broke up a month ago i let him go because his attitude to wards me hurt me alot he didnt care anymore. He is a drama alumni student and the Springs musical is coming soon i'm going to be in it and i know that he is going to go and so is she because she's also an alumni student what do i do, i know its going to hurt me, help!!!!!!
nanousa Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 i really sorry to read that. he really did not deserve ur care and ur love. he does not even know how u suffer when he went with the other girl. i think u should leave him and try to make other friends and how did u loved that 1 u can love other and hope u will find someone who loves u much and cares about u good luck
greenhorn Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 Hey supergirl, First thing I really like you user name..Supergirl I know where you are coming from, gather your courage and strength and show to him and that bi*** that you are not bothered by them.Whatever you might feel inside try to be happy and cheerful all the time, atleast feign indifference to them.Be with your own group,you own friends and try to enjoy the moment rather thinking about them. Don't let them win over you by letting them know that you are still hurt by that guy.If you are able to do this then you will come out more strong. My best wishes for you. cheers
GirlDown Posted March 24, 2005 Posted March 24, 2005 yes, the best thing to do is live your life like they don't exist, or at least never existed in a way that affected you. succeed, and that is your best route. you're wonderful, and you don't need these a*ssholes to get in the way of your life. they both should have known better. fortunately, you DO know better.
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