Lightmetoday Posted December 18, 2014 Posted December 18, 2014 I loved a girl who was a teenager & my close friend, I had my heartbroken , Now she is matured & cares me , she wants me back she felt sorry for the past, Problem is my heart is way too broken , I neither love her nor anyone else. I feel like i will never be able to love any girl in my life. The way she takes care of me is extraordinary but i keep feeling heartbroken. Someone tell me what to do? I tried "NC " before for 6 months but it doesn't work , I still keep feeling heartbroken.
Ieris Posted December 18, 2014 Posted December 18, 2014 Don't get involved with anyone if you are not ready. You don't want hurt anyone who genuinely cares for you. I think you should focus on sorting yourself out first and not use a relationship as a distraction (which lots of people do unfortunately). Is this the same girl that broke your heart or is it someone else? 1
Chatmonkey Posted December 18, 2014 Posted December 18, 2014 saying you did NC for however long and it didn't work, is silly. There is no set time for NC to work. Also, it is not your decision as to when you get over this. The body and mind are self healing entities. Whether you believe it or not, in the words of Eric Thomas "pain is temporary". Sorry this has happened, but as Ieris said, you need to focus in yourself right now. Like, seriously. Don't stop until you find yourself again and the 'brokenness' you are feeling becomes a distant memory.
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 19, 2014 Author Posted December 19, 2014 ya she is same girl. how should I start nc with her.? I dont want to hurt her friendship as she's been hurt by other friends recently. Should I tell her that I am broken thats why I am doing nc with her?
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