OCCDAVE Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 I met this girl online and we started talking.She doesn't like talking online much and would rather do it on the phone which is ok i guess it's just i'm a very shy and nervous person.I called her and she could tell i was nervous plus i kept repeating some of the stuff i asked ,Finally she said she has guy friends and stuff should i be careful or what cause i really like this girl but can't carry a conversation
agnf666 Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 Well if you really like this girl then you are going to have to try to carry a conversation. Just ask about her... Ask her how her day was and stuff once you get her talking then it should be easy for you to talk. If you still feel uncomfortable about it then just tell her you don't like to talk on the phone. Just be honest. Even though she has guy friends that doesn't mean anything she did ive you her number. So, just go slow and have a casual conversation.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 The nervousness will wear off after a few phone calls. Once you get to know each other better you will find more to talk about and it will be more comfortable, trust me on this.
Author OCCDAVE Posted March 23, 2005 Author Posted March 23, 2005 Originally posted by agnf666 Well if you really like this girl then you are going to have to try to carry a conversation. Just ask about her... Ask her how her day was and stuff once you get her talking then it should be easy for you to talk. If you still feel uncomfortable about it then just tell her you don't like to talk on the phone. Just be honest. Even though she has guy friends that doesn't mean anything she did ive you her number. So, just go slow and have a casual conversation. I told her i would rather email each other for the time being but she would rather talk plus if i don't call she thinks i'm avoiding her
paradox Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 Maybe it will help if you plan what you are gonna chat about and write some of the stuff down in advance. That will make you feel more confident. Once you'l get to know her better you are bound to become less nervous. Also it will help if you make few jokes now and there After all if she wouldn't be interested in you she wouldn't have wanted you to call her. Oh as for "guys friends" girls sometimes say it just to make themselves look popular..
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