sweetascandy Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 I have ebeen dating this guy for a few months.And we have already been through alot of stuff together.He is 1 year younger than me,he also has a 2 year old son.His ex left him after she had the kid and signed all rights over to him,and he raised him from there.Well he had also been in an sporting accident and had pins in his leg and for some reason he had dizzy spells.He wrote me love letters everyday,from the start.Ok well about a week into our relationship he went to the doctor and found out that he had to have surgery on his head cause he had a blood clot.Well he was scared i was gonna leave him when he went to have the surgery,but i didn't.Well I talked to his sister and she was telling me about how much her brother cared about me and all that stuff.So I moved and we normally talked by computer cause he stays 2 hours from me. So while my computer was off we talked by cell phones.Well I called him and we talked and he told me he'd call me back and never did.So I called him for about 2 weeks and got nuthing but voicemail.So when computer got back on I emailed him.Well when he got on the computer he IMed me and told me that he had a new number and that he had lost his other cell.Said that he was sorry and that he couldn't call me cause he didn't have my number,since it was on his cell that he lost.Anyway he gave me his new number and I gave him mine so he'd have it.Well we still talked on the computer and stuff and then he got in a wreak and we talked on the phone.So now theres a new problem.I called him and we talked and he promised he'd call me back but never did.So I called him the next day and his sis answered the phone and got smart with me.Well I never called back cause I didn't wanna get into it with her.So decided to call on a work day when I knew he'd answer the phone,well he has fixed it where I can't get through.He didn't block my number just fixed it for right now where only people on his contact list can call him.He want answer IMs or emails that I send him. He acts like this when he gets mad but I don't have the slightest clue what he is mad at me about.I mean I am willing to be a mother to his son,I have been there before and after his surgery,he has been in a wreak and got hurt from it,I have been by his side through all of this,we have been through people spreading lies about us and trying to split us up and now he is treating me like this.Not alot of women out there would have went through this with a guy they just started dating.He even told me himself that a girl like me was hard to find.I just don't get him sometimes.I just had to get this out of my system,cause it is hurting me so bad that he is treating me this way.
Sckott Posted March 23, 2005 Posted March 23, 2005 Sounds like you need to have a heart to heart with him when you get the chance. Don't pressure him for it, I'd say let him come to you. Confront him with your fears and problems and see what he says. But again, do not persue him so much. Sounds like you need to pull back a bit because (we're) not sure what's on his mind. The relationship is still young, and he may have issues with anger or pressures in his life.... Just be careful.
Author sweetascandy Posted March 23, 2005 Author Posted March 23, 2005 Thanx for the advice,I really appreciate it
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