BC1980 Posted December 17, 2014 Posted December 17, 2014 Is this the same guy you posted about a few weeks ago that ignored you for days after you had sex with him? If so, I really think this guy is keeping you at arms length and doesn't have much interest in a commitment. Most people who not just blurt out that they had a threesome 3 months into a relationship if they want the relationship to progress. That's like saying how many sexual partners you've had. I might never share that info with someone I'm serious about quite frankly. Most people don't want to know because it could offend the person they are dating. He clearly doesn't care if he offends you and was willing to roll the dice by divulging that he had a threesome. 2
BC1980 Posted December 17, 2014 Posted December 17, 2014 I have dated men who didn't like ME enough to overlook slightly aloof or odd behaviour - and then I have met men who have overlooked way worse behaviour than you exhibited - because they were INTO me. I think it definitely true. The reality is that people are usually willing to overlook a lot if they are into a person. OP, this guy isn't into you. He's already asking for space at 3 months. This should be the butterfly phase where everything is perfect. 2
Leigh 87 Posted December 17, 2014 Posted December 17, 2014 I think it definitely true. The reality is that people are usually willing to overlook a lot if they are into a person. OP, this guy isn't into you. He's already asking for space at 3 months. This should be the butterfly phase where everything is perfect. We know it but really... we can't expect the OP to listen. I'm sure at the time, we didn't listen to our gut when a guy acted this way towards us. When you really like a guy, it's hard to just accept that he clearly isn't that crazy about you and never will be. 1
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