Author Elise Posted April 26, 2005 Author Posted April 26, 2005 thank you Amanda...that was the best advice. EVER. it sucks
westernxer Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 Thanks. No, but I'd probably be a lot happier if I were. Or I might be dead already.
mishy Posted April 26, 2005 Posted April 26, 2005 aw you poor thing, yeah i think my life would be easier too if i was a lesbian
shots18 Posted August 21, 2005 Posted August 21, 2005 I am going through almost the same thing. I live with a gay man that I am completely in love with. We are each others soul mates. He has feelings for me but he is freaked out about them and now he is trying to distance himself from me. It really hurts to be in love with someone that you know will never really love you back. He went to a wedding with me as my date this past weekend and he was so sweet. He told me that he loved me and we were like the perfect couple for one evening. Now he is giving me the silent treatment and I cannot tell him how I feel. I would, but the last woman that told him she was in love with him ended up not seeing him again. He didn't want to lead her on and decided to cut the ties between them so she would be able to find someone else. I don't want that. I could not imagine not being with him. Living with him as friends is better than not ever seeing him again. I completely understand your dilemma. I feel so sorry for women like us. We really do set our selves up for heart ache.
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