Stanthemanwittheplan Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 When some one says they are reluctant about being in a relationship but doesn't want to date anyone else but me. What should I take from that? I just got out of a LTR and started seeing this amazing women who has done a lot more casual dating than I have. All I've known is LTR and I think it's a factor in my inability to understand casual dating and sex. We go on dates two or three times a week, we talk on a daily basis and laugh and have fun. We communicate how much we've come to like each other. Not to mention it's usually her who initiates conversation at the beginning of the day. She talk in advance about things we need to do in the future and goes as far as making plans for them. I guess the question is does this women not want to label whats going on or is she just casually dating me. To me it doesn't sound or feel casual.
FitChick Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 She wants someone to date while she keeps her eye out for someone better. Tell her that dating you and no one else IS a relationship.
Author Stanthemanwittheplan Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 She wants someone to date while she keeps her eye out for someone better. Tell her that dating you and no one else IS a relationship. So say that's true. What would her saying that she's just reluctant of a relationship for the fact of her leaving after college in summer. She said they she wanted to talk about it more and that she really cares about me but didn't want to end up hurting her self or me for that matter. She said she was still trying to understand how she felt but didn't want to date anyone else.
Diezel Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 My red flagometer is going off. Tread carefully. If all you know is LTR and she is anti-LTR, you might end up getting hurt. She might have a history of vanishing once men try to get "serious" with her and "trap her in".
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