Guy I like is trying to convince me to sign up for a class he teaches...should I?

[lovegroove]

So there is this guy I am very much attracted to and I think he may be attracted to me. Last night we were talking and he noticed that I had a couple of Pilates DVDs. He mentioned that the local fitness center (he works there as an instructor and a jack-of-all-trades) offers both Pilates and spinning classes (he teaches some of the spinning classes), and that if I signed up for a spinning class he would help me feel comfortable with the cycle and all.

 

I was sort of hesitant as a former boss I had also teaches some classes there, and he (the guy I am attracted to) kept trying to get me to say I would sign up - not demanding, just like "You really should; it's a great class and more intimate than cycling in the cardio room; I'd make sure you're comfortable there."

 

The only thing that confused me was that he mentioned that this girl I used to work with (who excercises there just about every day) was talking to one of his co-workers and either his co-worker was talking to her about him or the girl was talking to his co-worker about him...I think it was the first one but anyway...at first I thought his co-worker was trying to hook him up with her, but then he (the guy I am attracted to) said that he (co-worker) was just talking sh** about him (the way guys do)...not sure if he told me that to see my reaction or what; he didn't seem at all interested in this girl, from what I gathered.

 

Maybe I'm reading too much into what happened but it seemed like he was trying to make an excuse for us to spend more time together. I also happened to catch him checking out my body a couple of times - in a good way (well, he didn't look like he wanted to vomit or disgusted - I'm a bit curvy, to put it nicely - so I can only assume it was in a good way LOL), and whenever our eyes met he always seemed to look just a little too long, if you know what I mean.

 

I've known and been friendly w/this person for several years. I've been attracted to them for I'd say the past year or so, although last year was sort of rough since my father passed away and I wasn't very nice to anyone for quite a while (he didn't seem offended by that and never tried to intrude on my grieving; he was great about giving me the space I needed).

 

Any insight is appreciated; trying to decide whether I should take the bull by the horns and sign up for the classes. And what was up with that comment he made?

[SoleMate]

It's "intimate" and he'll make you "comfortable"??

 

If you want him, you can have him. That's what it means,