Should I send one last text to girl who disappeared?

[Dallers]

Text her, " Just a FYI you failed my text reflex test". I always use that one. Its funny, its assertive, and it leaves the ball in her court. If she still doesn't respond, you know where you stand.

 

No it doesn't...the act of contacting her is not putting the ball in her court it is just lowering your value because you feel the need to give her attention one last time. It is a beta trait to be passive aggressive with an aim to get a reaction or response from a woman. Every woman knows what you are doing and you think you win but you don't.

 

No contact / walking away are the only way to truly win. It makes people crazy and you may never hear from them again but when there is no closure and silence that is how you truly have the upper hand.

 

Showing that you have a better and bigger life without someone is what gets to them, the fact that you no longer need them or have anything to prove. The calm man always always plays a league higher than the aggressive man.

 

You do not chase, show emotion or give attention.

Edited December 17, 2014 by Dallers

[Diezel]

If you're value is already -15, how much lower can you already lower it? Walking away only drives the other person "crazy" if there is anything over 0% interest and the expectation of attention.

[Standard-Fare]

If you're value is already -15, how much lower can you already lower it? Walking away only drives the other person "crazy" if there is anything over 0% interest and the expectation of attention.

 

True... the other person is probably just feeling relief that they've avoided a direct conflict. BUT, texting that one extra time can have the unintended result of stroking their ego a little more ("Oh, wow look, he still wants me. Why isn't he getting this? I'll continue to ignore him"). That, and/or it might irritate them a little bit.

 

But bottom line, nothing positive can be gained. So don't do it!