3rdone Posted December 15, 2014 Posted December 15, 2014 I'm only here for an opinion. I have not groveled to her or put pressure on her to spend more time with me...so I don't need the quit whining comments. I'm just curious how others would take this... ok she more or less said she was just really busy and that it won't always be like this and that she gives me all her free time, she doesn't want to end it, she doesn't want me to back off, she's not seeing anyone else, etc... Comes over wednesday and we talk it out about what's going on and for the most part says what's in the previous paragraph...but her actions are different. We don't talk thursday. She sends me a txt on Friday around 9pm saying Hey how was you day? I respond a couple hours later...It was good. That was end of the convo. She goes to a bachelorette party the next day I get another text at 5:45 Hey there just wanted to say hi. Hope you have a good night. I was busy so I texted her later that night around 11pm..."have a good night...thanks." She responds with "ha! You're funny." I say I'm not following? She sends back LOL. I then tell her I was busy with a family emergency all day (at the hospital) and I'm sorry for being short and I don't want to argue. She then says.."sorry im kinda drunk. I didn't mean anything by it Sorry to hear that." Then another text right after saying "really am sorry was just messing around. I told her I was just frustrated, tired, and miss you. She sends "Do you??" I respond with yes..do you? She sends drunk sorry in 2 separate text (it's been 15min since the Im sorry text mind you)..Im like so that's a no. then she sends a series of one word text: No, Sorry, didn't mean no, opposite, drink remember, u* she went from texting completely coherently to piss drunk in 30 min?? today I text her saying sorry for being so curt just a lot going on, has nothing to do with you. I know you're busy so I'm going to try to give you that space. Hope I didn't upset you, take care 6hrs later I get, "don't worry, I was crazy drunk, could not communicate via text." It's driving me crazy with this slooooowww communication game. Is she mad at me? Did I piss her off by not responding fast enough? Am I even in the game at this point? She leaves little crumbs to make me think we're ok, but our communication has dropped. Am I reading too much into this?
d0nnivain Posted December 15, 2014 Posted December 15, 2014 Texting is the worst form of communication. You can't take it too seriously. Leave it be. Talk to her in person. Put stock in that & avoid texting except in emergencies. I hope your relative in the hospital feels better. 1
Author 3rdone Posted December 15, 2014 Author Posted December 15, 2014 Texting is the worst form of communication. You can't take it too seriously. Leave it be. Talk to her in person. Put stock in that & avoid texting except in emergencies. I hope your relative in the hospital feels better. Am I reading way too much into this? We've only been dating a couple of months...When someone drops off in their "texting" it's usually not good. Plus the whole vibe seems a little different.
Author 3rdone Posted December 15, 2014 Author Posted December 15, 2014 I was going to give a day or two without bombarding her with silly "have a nice day text" and then ask her if she'd like to take a walk with me and maybe get some ice cream. Is that a bad idea? I don't want to seen needy. Need a ladies perspective. For me..she's the one, I just want to know if I'm wasting my time
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