elizabeth21 Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Okay so my friend's uncle is a little more than twice my age. I'm going to be 20 soon. He's a giant kid and super funny. When we first started talking I thought he was funny nuts/a creep for talking to me. I stopped talking to him once I got busy with school n I thought it'd be best to keep distance. Well, I went out with his nephews and he was there. We started talking again and we honestly have a blast when we're together. He's a flirt with me but the other night we got close/touchy and he held my hand a few times. I'm not looking to date anyone unless someone great comes along. I need to focus on growing in my faith and as a person, and school. Now I know I will never date/marry this man so idk if that's why this is fun? No stress/commitment perhaps? He's wayy too old for me and I don't want to die a widow. I've only had 1 bf and went on dates with guys but I never do flings or anything. I'm not "easy" and I'm still a virgin. It's like him n me have the aspects of a relationship but without the title/kissing. And we're okay with what ever this is. We talk on the phone for a long time about random stuff and our days. So what should I do? Should I let this phase ride out and have fun while it lasts, or cut it out now? I know I will eventually stop talking to him again and find a serious bf, but I have fun with him and his family.
bachdude Posted December 15, 2014 Posted December 15, 2014 I know I will eventually stop talking to him again and find a serious bf, but I have fun with him and his family. Then stop now - I wouldn't lead him on. It's not fair to him. 1
mario_C Posted December 15, 2014 Posted December 15, 2014 Before the flaming starts, I want to say it's OK to be affectionate or flirtatious with whoever you want, as long as you draw boundaries. Be clear you are not interested in a relationship, and be kind of course, but you enjoy his company or friendship or whatever. 2
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