singlelife Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Why have other people ask you all kinds of questions about who you like instead of just asking you herself? A guy may not even know who the questions are for.
d0nnivain Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 This behavior worked on the playground so they think it will work in adulthood.
JJOlay Posted December 15, 2014 Posted December 15, 2014 I don't believe she is necessarily trying to figure things out, just send you a hint. A hint that isn't clear, but a hint nonetheless. If you are interested in her I'd suggest you approach her and get to know her.
todreaminblue Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 it's a trap! its not a trap......unless you want it to be.....deb
Author singlelife Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 so they send their friends to hint so you can make a move?
Toodaloo Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 Sometimes the friends are just interfering, sometimes they are chronically shy, sometimes they just can't figure out how the hell to approach you with out looking like a dork. Simple answer to the question if you like her - approach her. Then you can figure out which it is.
Author singlelife Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 I asked the question because it's awkward when a friend is all in your business and you don't know why. I approach girls all the time. This is for why they do what they do. What ever happened to confidence in a woman?
Danda Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 I asked the question because it's awkward when a friend is all in your business and you don't know why. I approach girls all the time. This is for why they do what they do. What ever happened to confidence in a woman? The same thing that ever happened to confidence in a lot of men, I guess. Some people are just really shy or otherwise socially awkward. Wingwomen also tend operate differently than wingmen. A guy's wingman is going to be trying to help his friend score. Typically a gals' wingwoman is going to be trying to protect her friend and to filter out threats of any and all kinds. Therefore a wingwoman is more likely to interrogate you.
Author singlelife Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 I ask because a lot of guys think the girls asking them questions like them and not her friend. So it's confusing.
carhill Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 Why have other people ask you all kinds of questions about who you like instead of just asking you herself? A guy may not even know who the questions are for. It's called reconnaissance. Who better to perform it than a disinterested third party who is loyal to the person desiring information. Then there's the group-think/network angle. They collect information and talk it out. Men are more frontal assault. It's just different. IMO, for the man, don't worry about what women do, simply approach those you like and what happens, happens. 2
Author singlelife Posted December 16, 2014 Author Posted December 16, 2014 It sends mixed messages from the get go.
neowulf Posted December 16, 2014 Posted December 16, 2014 Women just have a different approach to Men. They're generally not used to the "direct approach". Realistically, they'd probably prefer if the guy made the first move. What they're really trying to do is signal that they'd like them too.
Author singlelife Posted December 17, 2014 Author Posted December 17, 2014 I get it. But maybe they could use different tactics is all I'm saying.
Danda Posted December 17, 2014 Posted December 17, 2014 It's called reconnaissance. Who better to perform it than a disinterested third party who is loyal to the person desiring information. Then there's the group-think/network angle. They collect information and talk it out. Men are more frontal assault. It's just different. IMO, for the man, don't worry about what women do, simply approach those you like and what happens, happens. I like the way you think, sir.
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