Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 If there is a guy who has true deep feelings for you & he want to marry you , but you only like him but you dont have any feelings for him, what will you do if he propose you?
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 I would decline. Right and what would you say , you decline because you dont have feelings for him or because you dont want to hurt him? Also if he is your close bestfriend in that case?
GemmaUK Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Right and what would you say , you decline because you dont have feelings for him or because you dont want to hurt him? Also if he is your close bestfriend in that case? That I couldn't be with someone I didn't have feelings for. If you're planning on proposing to someone who has already told you she isn't interested in you in that way you should believe her.
Maleficent Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Well first of all, if I don't have feelings for a man, he wouldn't be in a situation where marriage would be an option (ie not my boyfriend). So why would a not-my-boyfriend ask me to marry him exactly? 4
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Well i have a very close friend , I have feelings for her , but she only like me . From her nature i know if i propose her she will go ahead & since she dont have feelings , i am sure we will end up in tradegy.
Million.to.1 Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 You can't propose unless you are already in relationship. It would be weird and yes, a tragedy. I hope you are not seriously considering this. I'm sorry, i know unrequited love sucks, but you can't do this, knowing it will just end badly.
Gpc2013 Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Well i have a very close friend , I have feelings for her , but she only like me . From her nature i know if i propose her she will go ahead & since she dont have feelings , i am sure we will end up in tradegy. Why would you propose to a woman you know doesn't have romantic feelings for you? And you say if she accepted, the relationship would end badly. So...it's pretty obvious that you shouldn't propose. 1
smackie9 Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 omg you are one of those who thinks the friend could grow into the idea of love. Dude stop wasting your time on this fantasy. It's no wonder you are so lonely, you lock yourself up in these unrealistic delusions preventing you from seeing the real world that's around you. Work on your insecurity issues so you can get out there, have a social life, friends, and gfs to date.
d0nnivain Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 I would never let it get that far. Before I let a friend do something like propose I would head it off at the pass so he did not ask & I did not have to turn him down & hurt his feelings. It seems to me that you have not even dated this woman or kissed her or anything else. If that is true, whatever you do, do NOT propose. How do you know that she only likes you as a friend? If she has point blank said that, believe her & move on. Go out & look for the woman who will be thrilled when you propose. If you don't know for sure you can try asking this woman out on a date.
deathandtaxes Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 What donnivan said. It should never have gotten to that point in the first place. Need more background story, OP.
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Well , 2 years ago we were in love but then she decided to remain friend only. I was heartbroken but today after 2 years i have lost some intrest in her but i still have a few of those old feelings in me. She herself told she likes me , She understands me . Should i trust my old feelings tht still exist will grow & develop more for her ? Or should i go for "No contact" ?
FitChick Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Date someone else. Ask her to fix you up with one of her friends or relatives. 1
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Having feelings for her & dating sm1 else , I dont know if its suitable ! I am losing myself now , all day i am worried & stressed
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 To free myself what should i tell her , I am leaving your bestfriendship? She may feel hurt , i dont want to hurt her but same time i am myself hurt , i can't make a decision, I have her on chat messenger, should i delete my messenger? Its making me feel horrible to make this decision because she has been a really close friend
BlueIvy Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 If there is a guy who has true deep feelings for you & he want to marry you , but you only like him but you dont have any feelings for him, what will you do if he propose you? I would decline. I would be honest and tell him I don't feel the same. I would try to be gentle about it.Why would I marry someone who I don't have strong feelings for?
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Also i told her about my old feelings that i still have , she said me its your choice to remain friend or you may propose. She had a life saving cancer diagnosis which make me feel more caring for her. I am in great distress, I somehow want to save friendship
frozengirl Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 I would probably decline or tell him how I really felt about him.
Author Lightmetoday Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 I would decline. I would be honest and tell him I don't feel the same. I would try to be gentle about it.Why would I marry someone who I don't have strong feelings for? Thats correct ! feelings must be mutual always
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