niceguy162 Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 4 weeks ago i got dumped by my girlfriend. I knew things were not right between us but i didn't see it coming. She had slept at my place on a friday and i slept at her place the next day (we both still live with my parents) and that sunday she just dumped me because we we're fighting again. When we talked it out she was crying more then i was and i was comforting her saying it was ok and that i did understand why i broke up with her. I didn't go no contact directly (i know i should've). I went no contact after 3 days. I removed her on every social network. 2 weeks later I was going to a club with a bus where she was on too. I saw her flirting with this other guy (i knew she was talking with him since the day we broke up). He is actually very very very ugly and unattractive. I tried to talk to her that night but she didn't want to and told me i had to '**** off'. So i did after she said it multiple times. The day after the night at the club she posted some pictures on her Facebook. saying she was hurting me because she wanted me to know how it felt when i hurt her. And a post saying she was feeling really bad. (I just went NC) A couple of day later i was driving to work and i saw her on the way ( and she noticed me as well). only 5 min later she posted a status saying she did feel bad. I texted her and asked why she was so mad at me. ( i know i shouldn't have) We talked a little and she told me she was mad at me for bull**** reasons. So i went NC again for 2 weeks. Today i saw her again at a club and tried to talk but she was ignoring me again. I went home short after she went and just saw a picture of her with the guy she talked with since we broke up. With the description just being a heart. I'm really confused and i want her back although i know i shouldn't take her back after this. Does anyone have experience with this? Or a way to get her back? (Sorry if the story is a little bit vague i'm drunk right now and confused).
HurtGator Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Do you really want to take back a person who admits they are hurting you on purpose for vindictive reasons? Also, would you want her back after God knows what she did with this other guy? Have some self respect!
Author niceguy162 Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Do you really want to take back a person who admits they are hurting you on purpose for vindictive reasons? Also, would you want her back after God knows what she did with this other guy? Have some self respect! She might have done that. Because i was kissing other girls that night. I thought she didn't see it but people told me she might have. I wasn't kissing those girls because i liked them just because i was trying to feel better about myself.
coolheadal Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Sounds like you two are not ready for each other. She's doing the same thing your doing. Playing the field. So until your ready to stop doing the field testing then just have to deal with things as they are! Move on!
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