frozengirl Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 The guy I've been dating lately, have gone on 3 dates, but this past Wednesday him and I and a few others who are a part of a Skype group chat, did a audio/video call and all chatted about random stuff. At the end of the night around midnight it was only 4 people, him and I and 2 other guys, one of the guys was joking around and had said "So is it alright if I beat up your boyfriend?" referring to me, I clearly said "We're not a couple". After those comments the conversation just ended and everyone went to sleep. But also since that time, I have not heard back from this guy, and he even told me that same day that him and I were to hang out this Friday and Saturday and I have not heard from him since Wednesday and we didn't hang out at all on Friday or not yet for today. Do you think I may have struck a chord and hurt his feelings by saying him and I were not a couple? So he's stopped talking to me altogether or do you think something came up and he hasn't had the chance to talk to me? Him and I never said we were a couple at all, we were just dating and getting to know one another.
Author frozengirl Posted December 13, 2014 Author Posted December 13, 2014 Why don't you call him? I'd rather wait and let him call me, he apparently likes me so much so why doesn't he show it?
Danda Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Yeah it's possible that he took it all wrong. Like thinking that he had already put down some groundwork in 'claiming' you (for lack of a better term from my brain atm), and then in the presence of other guys you dismissed it. For the record you didn't do anything wrong, but yeah I can also see how he might have felt kind of bummed in some way about it if he secretly already has intentions/hopes of making you his girlfriend. I agree that it's a good idea to just give him a call and see how he's doing in general. If the topic comes up then just explain to him what you explained here. If he's mature and sane it should turn out just fine.
snowflakes88 Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 I'd rather wait and let him call me, he apparently likes me so much so why doesn't he show it? This is silly. If you suspect you may have said something to upset another person, you can be an adult and be the one to pick up the phone. 2
todreaminblue Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 i agree with the other posters...call him.... mexican stand offs are for mexicans with pistols...not phone calls..if you care about him...call him.... if you dont care dont call him..and he probably wont call you...good luck frozengirl...........deb
Frank2thepoint Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 I'd rather wait and let him call me, he apparently likes me so much so why doesn't he show it? And he apparently knows you don't like him because you won't call him to talk.
Author frozengirl Posted December 13, 2014 Author Posted December 13, 2014 Well I did text him and I had asked him why we didn't hang out yesturday or today and he said it was due to funds so thats why he hasn't talked to me, not about us not being a couple.
anne1707 Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Well I did text him and I had asked him why we didn't hang out yesturday or today and he said it was due to funds so thats why he hasn't talked to me, not about us not being a couple. So after possibly hurting his feelings in the Skype chat you then had a go at him for not hanging out yesterday. Call him and don't have another go at him, assuming you would like to see him again.
Author frozengirl Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Him and I will hang out when he gets paid because he says he doesn't have any funds to hang out even though he's hanging out with his friends at a party so that makes sense.
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