Frank2thepoint Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Tip: you want men to ask you out for a second date, you need to do the following: -Sex appeal. Men like a woman to dress sexy but feminine. Guys are visual creatures. They do take notice of the smallest of details like painted manicured nails, well groomed hair, some makeup but not too much. -Flirt and tease with a devilish smile. Guys like a little mystery too. -Body language, do the submissive looking up eye contact, the laugh and touch move, head tilt, put your hair behind your ear, lean in. These are cues that guys look for. -have a positive outlook on life, keep conversation light, not complicated. No guy wants a debbie downer and hear about what happen with your last relationship, or how crappy dating has been. These tips sound like they are straight out of some vain woman's magazine, like Cosmopolitan. Be slutty, coy, dumb, and always giggle.
truth_seeker Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Such a bad advice omg. Guys are chasers, girls are choosers. Doesn't work tge other way around. You looked desperate telling a guy you liked them. You should have options and you should be the one receiving those messages. Wrong. That's how you see it. Not all men have to chase... some of us have options and can choose. When did telling someone you like them is desperate? That's crazy talk.
truth_seeker Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Tip: you want men to ask you out for a second date, you need to do the following: -Sex appeal. Men like a woman to dress sexy but feminine. Guys are visual creatures. They do take notice of the smallest of details like painted manicured nails, well groomed hair, some makeup but not too much. -Flirt and tease with a devilish smile. Guys like a little mystery too. -Body language, do the submissive looking up eye contact, the laugh and touch move, head tilt, put your hair behind your ear, lean in. These are cues that guys look for. -have a positive outlook on life, keep conversation light, not complicated. No guy wants a debbie downer and hear about what happen with your last relationship, or how crappy dating has been. I agree with the last one. I went out on a date with a woman and she gets emotional talking about her ex... immediate turn off and erection killer. 1
truth_seeker Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Telling him you like him, hate him, love him or whatever. It's just words. His reply is just words. Words don't mean **** unless backed up by action. I won't give you a hard time either way for texting him the message. But it's quite meaningless without ACTION. Actions > Words 1
smackie9 Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 I agree with the last one. I went out on a date with a woman and she gets emotional talking about her ex... immediate turn off and erection killer. What's a real turn off is when I hear "I'm a lonely guy"....ew
smackie9 Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 These tips sound like they are straight out of some vain woman's magazine, like Cosmopolitan. Be slutty, coy, dumb, and always giggle. 100% success.....just my experience. btw being sexy feminine is the opposite of slutty. Where does it say be dumb.....
truth_seeker Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 What's a real turn off is when I hear "I'm a lonely guy"....ew When I meet someone, I'm optimistic, carefree... if the date sours or isn't working from jump street, then I just put on a good face, be a gentleman and walk away when it's over. Usually, on the car ride home, I'll be ticked off that I wasted my time, but then think to myself that the woman did me a favor as I don't have to ever see her again. For me it comes down to the disappointment of not meeting someone I was hopeful to connect with... not really that a specific woman doesn't like me. It stings but its more so: "She wasn't the one." For me, turn offs from women include: *bringing up ex's *can't hold a conversation *talk about themselves to the point I think they're dumb and delusional *lack of fashion sense, hygiene 1
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