overanalyse Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Hello everyone, So i broke up with this girl about a year ago. It was pretty hard getting over her and coping up with my life. But seems like i am finally moved on and doing much better now on the emotional front. I got a new job, in a new city , hoping to find something new , and exciting. Its been 2 months now, and i havent been lucky to find anyone i can relate to. I have been desperately trying talking to new people and getting to know them . But i feel my desperation in finding someone to fall in love with, is getting the better of me. I am felt feeling alone all the time . Spending weekends all by myself etc. I am not sure what to do, or where i am heading. Should i learn to be single, or should i keep on trying? please help. i am at my wits end
d0nnivain Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Most people can smell desperation the way dogs can smell fear. On one level you do have to become more comfortable in your own your own skin. Next you have to expand your social circle & make new friends in your new city. Volunteer somewhere. Join a group like the Elks, the Moose, the Kiwanis or even your local volunteer fire department. Play a sport. Find ways to connect with friends in the area. Ask somebody from work to hang out. Reconnect with an Alumni Association. As you make friends, you won't spend weekends alone. They you will be in a better emotional place to start dating.
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