KenrickGaw Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Hi all, if a date has been cancelled, when should I date the same woman again?Thanks a lot in advance.
most_distant_galaxy Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Its good manners that the person who cancels suggests an alternate date! Maybe for next weekend? 1
acrosstheuniverse Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 When she contacts you, explains why she cancelled, apologises and invites YOU out on the next date, with a set date and time to meet. 1
ZX4 Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 I'd say wait at least a week. If she reaches out, just reschedule. If not, make sure that you bring up the cancellation when you contact her. If her excuse is BS, or you feel like she just blew you off, move on. 2
Author KenrickGaw Posted December 13, 2014 Author Posted December 13, 2014 Of course the woman cancelled the date and she never suggested.
Author KenrickGaw Posted December 13, 2014 Author Posted December 13, 2014 Of course the woman cancelled the date and she never suggested. She already explained.
Author KenrickGaw Posted December 13, 2014 Author Posted December 13, 2014 She only said a day in future.
sillyanswer Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 If there's a cancellation without an immediate rescheduling on an early date then the advice is often that this is a signal that she isn't interested. For the rare occasion where that's not true, just try talking to her to find out her schedule or suggest another date. If she's interested in rescheduling the date she'll make it easy to find a time when she's free, but if she is vague about when she's free, or just not sure when she's free, or doesn't talk about that then it probably means that she doesn't want to see you again. Seasonal caveat: some people really do get very busy just around Christmas with seeing friends, office parties, family etc. 1
Diezel Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 She only said a day in future. Translation: A day in... never. 3
deathandtaxes Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Always assume the reason is straight up BS if there's no offer to reschedule. And if there is no offer to reschedule, respect yourself enough to NOT text or contact the person again. 1
Author KenrickGaw Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Always assume the reason is straight up BS if there's no offer to reschedule. And if there is no offer to reschedule, respect yourself enough to NOT text or contact the person again. May I ask what BS is?
Donnie Darko Posted December 14, 2014 Posted December 14, 2014 Try deleting her number and not contacting her at all. Then find and date other women that actually accept and show up for your date invitations or at least have the common courtesy to reschedule if they have to cancel for a legitimate reason.
Author KenrickGaw Posted December 15, 2014 Author Posted December 15, 2014 Try deleting her number and not contacting her at all. Then find and date other women that actually accept and show up for your date invitations or at least have the common courtesy to reschedule if they have to cancel for a legitimate reason. But I asked her again and she agreed to meet this weekend.It is so hard to understand women.
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