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So the sadness and grief are all gone


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But I can't help but feel jaded. And a bit unmotivated.

 

For example, I feel better, a lot better, than I was 7 months ago. I can't believe I was so depressed. I couldn't sleep, I looked sick, sad, etc. But now it's all just about jadedness.

 

 

I had no motivation to study this semester. I had to force myself. My grades even reflected it but thanks God I at least passed.

 

I found some girl on pof. We were supposed to go on a date today, and it was all on me. Unfortunately, nothing materialized for other reasons. And I don't even feel so bad about it. I would expect to feel bummed but I just don't care. I didn't do a final paper for my class and my grade dropped. Again, didn't feel so bad. At least I was bummed about my grade.

 

So, how do I get rid of this. I feel like I need to kick start life again or something, idk what you would call it.

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maybe not as depressed as you were before but you are still depressed. Just not caring about your work or another person or the quality of your life is a sign of depression. Go see someone at your health center. Students get depressed all the time and they can help you.

 

Do not wait. Life is too short to waste feeling jaded and depressed.

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If it was a significant relationship that you are still getting over, I would say it's normal to feel this way temporarily at least.

 

If these feelings start affecting your life too much or for too long then it's time to take action.

 

Personally I think you naturally get sick of feeling it and you start getting your proper self back.

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