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Would you get back with your ex if you know you will not get another girl for 1 year?

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youcanever Established Member

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I am into this kind of situation and I wanted to ask your opinions. There is 2 options I will list below. Which one would you chose and why?

 

Senario #1: Get back with your ex. Your trust issues goes on due to red flags and you know 7-8 months later she will dump your ass off because she is moving to a bigger city away from you. But on the other hand you will get laid once a week or once a two weeks. But at the end, your heart get ripped apart due to break up and you are in the middle of your intense aviation training which you need to focus fully.

 

Senario #2: Don't get back with her. Keep masturbating. And this is most likely to go on for 1-1.5 years due to your intense aviation training. You will not find any other girl because it is a very small town full of guys like you.

 

I'd appreciate if you enlighten me about your opinions.

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I am into this kind of and I wanted to ask your opinions. There is 2 options I will list below. Which one would you chose and why?

 

Senario #1: Get back with your ex. Your trust issues goes on due to red flags and you know 7-8 months later she will dump your ass off because she is moving to a bigger city away from you. But on the other hand you will get laid once a week or once a two weeks. But at the end, your heart get ripped apart due to break up and you are in the middle of your intense aviation training which you need to focus fully.

 

Senario #2: Don't get back with her. Keep masturbating. And this is most likely to go on for 1-1.5 years due to your intense aviation training. You will not find any other girl because it is a very small town full of guys like you.

 

I'd appreciate if you enlighten me about your opinions.

 

You do realize girls are more than just sex objects right?

 

I think you know the answer as well. #2

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I am into this kind of situation and I wanted to ask your opinions. There is 2 options I will list below. Which one would you chose and why?

 

Senario #1: Get back with your ex. Your trust issues goes on due to red flags and you know 7-8 months later she will dump your ass off because she is moving to a bigger city away from you. But on the other hand you will get laid once a week or once a two weeks. But at the end, your heart get ripped apart due to break up and you are in the middle of your intense aviation training which you need to focus fully.

 

Senario #2: Don't get back with her. Keep masturbating. And this is most likely to go on for 1-1.5 years due to your intense aviation training. You will not find any other girl because it is a very small town full of guys like you.

 

I'd appreciate if you enlighten me about your opinions.

 

I would choose Scenario 2. I mean, what is the point being in a relationship that you know is going to end? You are just wasting time for the both of you. If you want to get laid, then just go to a club/bar, plenty of opportunities to get laid with no strings attached. It isn't worth it to get your heart broken again by the same girl.

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You do realize girls are more than just sex objects right?

 

I think you know the answer as well. #2

 

I absolutely know that I loved all my gfs from my heart. But sex is also a very much of a human need.

 

Answer 2 seems the obvious but 1-1.5 year of lonesome seem so tough without sex. That is confusing about what should I do.

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I would choose Scenario 2. I mean, what is the point being in a relationship that you know is going to end? You are just wasting time for the both of you. If you want to get laid, then just go to a club/bar, plenty of opportunities to get laid with no strings attached. It isn't worth it to get your heart broken again by the same girl.

 

Thank you for your comment JackJackxD but did you read my post? Because as I stated that I will have like %5 chance to meet a new girl for 1-1.5 years due to it is a very small town and mostly it is full of aviation male students as I am.

 

Would you still choose senario 2?

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I absolutely know that I loved all my gfs from my heart. But sex is also a very much of a human need.

No, it's not. It's a desire which actually fades in time. YOU may need it, but it's not a necessity....

 

Answer 2 seems the obvious but 1-1.5 year of lonesome seem so tough without sex. That is confusing about what should I do

Escorts....?

 

Others on here do it, and find it very fulfilling.

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No, it's not. It's a desire which actually fades in time. YOU may need it, but it's not a necessity....

 

 

Escorts....?

 

Others on here do it, and find it very fulfilling.

 

You get very associal and weird when you don't have sex for couple of months. At least I be like that after 4-5 months.

 

I've done that escort thing. It is very expensive if you want to lower the chances of getting STD or anything. And after that, you just feel guilt. At least I did. Not worth it if you are not rich.

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Thank you for your comment JackJackxD but did you read my post? Because as I stated that I will have like %5 chance to meet a new girl for 1-1.5 years due to it is a very small town and mostly it is full of aviation male students as I am.

 

Would you still choose senario 2?

 

I just cannot believe that there is a town out there that has a 1:20 Female to male ratio.

 

Even if there is a low chance of meeting a new girl, I would still choose 2. Just because getting your heart broken by the same girl isn't something that anyone would want to go through.

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I just cannot believe that there is a town out there that has a 1:20 Female to male ratio.

 

Even if there is a low chance of meeting a new girl, I would still choose 2. Just because getting your heart broken by the same girl isn't something that anyone would want to go through.

 

She didn't break my heart yet. She just showed lots of red flags and I am the one breaking up with her due to not trusting her. Still no?

 

And yes, even if there is couple of girls, they are not higher than 2-3/10.

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You get very associal and weird when you don'tthe e sex for couple of months. At least I be like that after 4-5 Months

 

I've done that escort thing. It is very about sive if you want to lower the chances of getting STD or anything. And after that, you just feel guilt. At least I did. Not worth it if you are not rich.

 

Dude don't be silly. I went without sex for like a year and a half and I was just the same then than I am now that I have sex daily. I know ppl who havent for longer and they are fine. Dont pick a girl based on sex. That's gross and doesnt speak well about you or your motives.

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You get very associal and weird when you don't have sex for couple of months. At least I be like that after 4-5 months.

Rubbish. It's all in your head. It's a craving, not a need.

 

I went without sex for nearly 2 years when single. I think you'll find I came out of it unscathed....:rolleyes:

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Start reading spicy books! Or join something like Tinder, if you really want to hookup with someone.

 

You tend to meet people when you least expect it, so it's ridiculous to say you know you're going to be single for X amount of time.

 

I expressly didn't want to get involved with anyone for a LONG time, but then I moved, and immediately hit it off with my ex. Nevermind how that ended, because you can never predict that part, either, but my point is there was lots of physical activity. :p

 

You'll get through it.

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Start reading spicy books! Or join something like Tinder, if you really want to hookup with someone.

 

You tend to meet people when you least expect it, so it's ridiculous to say you know you're going to be single for X amount of time.

 

I expressly didn't want to get involved with anyone for a LONG time, but then I moved, and immediately hit it off with my ex. Nevermind how that ended, because you can never predict that part, either, but my point is there was lots of physical activity. :p

 

You'll get through it.

 

I think I am just trying to find some excuse to contact my ex again. And I highly doubt that sex will be as good as before after 10 days of NC with her and breaking her heart etc.

 

She will be cold and I don't want to deal with that kind of mood.

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