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I'm very cool with a woman in the accounting department and I'm in her office a lot. This woman's supervisor has mentioned on more than one occasion that she notices how much I'm in her office and trying to imply I have a thing for her.

 

 

But if the supervisor is married why does she care? Lol

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I'm very cool with a woman in the accounting department and I'm in her office a lot. This woman's supervisor has mentioned on more than one occasion that she notices how much I'm in her office and trying to imply I have a thing for her.

 

 

But if the supervisor is married why does she care? Lol

 

Because it's her job to monitor and be wary of possible inappropriate relationships. It doesn't mean that she has a thing for you, it just means she's paying attention.

 

Also, may be a hint that you're spending too much time in the other office when you should be working.

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Because it's her job to monitor and be wary of possible inappropriate relationships. It doesn't mean that she has a thing for you, it just means she's paying attention.

 

Also, may be a hint that you're spending too much time in the other office when you should be working.

 

 

Yep... she is trying to tell you both to stop acting like horn dogs and smelling each others crotch... and do you damn job they are paying you for.

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Ok I wasn't sure if that was her way of wanting me to stop in her office lol

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Omg...no. it's a way for you to stop your behavior. Are you delusional? Lol

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Omg...no. it's a way for you to stop your behavior. Are you delusional? Lol

 

She doesn't be serious she is just trying to make it seems like I want to take her out. And that's why I was confused due to the fact she is married

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She doesn't be serious she is just trying to make it seems like I want to take her out. And that's why I was confused due to the fact she is married

 

You must first respect the fact that she is married and assume that she respects that too. You are likely reading into what she's saying. Perhaps she seems a little playful or joking, but it's just that. People do that all the time.

 

It is more likely, however, she is delivering the message of "get to work" in a playful way for now. She may have to get more "serious" about it if you don't.

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You must first respect the fact that she is married and assume that she respects that too. You are likely reading into what she's saying. Perhaps she seems a little playful or joking, but it's just that. People do that all the time.

 

It is more likely, however, she is delivering the message of "get to work" in a playful way for now. She may have to get more "serious" about it if you don't.

 

Ok well maybe going in her office to show her some attention is not a good idea

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