Conqueror36 Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 Ok, so me and my GF of 4 years broke up 2 months ago. So in September she said she really wanted to go back to Vietnam to visit her kids, family and having fun and I let her, BIG MISTAKE. I brought her a lot of expensive gifts like iphone 6, LV purse, and money. During the time she's there she's out drinking and **** and get really cold towards me. We never talk for more than 2-3 mins before she hangs up. By this time I was pretty angry. During the time she have fun in Vietnam I was taking care business for her and everything else. After 1 month she goes back to the US and I feel like I don't even matter to her anymore. She acts cold and uncaring of my feelings. SO I decided to break up with her 4 days later and she happily obliged. Feeling really sad about the breakup. Hardly talk and the only time she call me is asking me for help with her shop. Help her just a little bit with it and then decided to stop picking up her phone. The NC lasted for about 2 weeks. I move out of the apt, but haven't taken my name off the lease yet. OK, so this I shouldn't have done but since we share the same apt. and I can get in and out of it NP, I decided to spy on her. I put a voice recording device near her bed to listen to her one night. I find out she was calling some guy in Vietnam everyday and talking like they are a couple. This obviously mean that at the time she was in Vietnam when we were still BF/GF she was hooking up with this guy and probably ****ing him. I called her up today after ignoring like 40 calls from her. I told her about it and she denies it completely. When I told her I have proof of it she gets super pissed and called me names and such, saying we're no longer a couple and I should stay out of her business. See, if we broke up normally I wouldn't get this piss but now I know she was hooking up with someone and cheated on me while in Vietnam it really drive me insane. She still owes me about 10k and I told her she has 2 weeks to give it to me or else. Is there anything I can do if she doesn't pay me. I really wanted to get revenge on her.
d0nnivain Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 She still owes me about 10k and I told her she has 2 weeks to give it to me or else. Is there anything I can do if she doesn't pay me. I really wanted to get revenge on her. Do you have a written contract signed by her where she agrees to pay back the money? If not, you probably will never see the money again. She will claim it's a gift. When you seek revenge, 1st dig two graves. Get your name off the lease before she stops paying rent & ruins your credit. Then move on. 1
Ducky71 Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 So it ended up costing you 10K to get her out of your life, big, fat, expensive lesson learned. Suck it up and move on. The best revenge is good living. 1
Author Conqueror36 Posted December 12, 2014 Author Posted December 12, 2014 Money isn't a concern, but now I also learn that in 2 weeks time she'll go back to Vietnam again, obviously using my money to plan her trip just so she can meet up with him again. Knowing this pisses me to no end. Sometimes ignorance really is bliss. Before not spying on her I was just thinking of NC and just move on with my life, but know that she cheated on me with someone in Vietnam and knowing that I let her go there and now she plan to go back to her lover.... I just can't stop thinking about it and it's driving me crazy.
Author Conqueror36 Posted December 12, 2014 Author Posted December 12, 2014 I try to get my name off the lease but it wouldn't let me because her income isn't 3x the rent there. I need to ask her to basically sign the lease again with just her name.
EgoJoe Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 You can always sue her or take the apartment back when she leaves. Watch your credit man.
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