Onedayitwillbebetter Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 Hey guys I've been reading here for the last couple of days Anyways we been dating for a couple of months only. Everything was going well then a tradegy happened. Her gma passed away. Obviously I was there for her during this process. She feel way behind in school so our alone time was nearly none existent. Over time it felt like our realtionship stood still. Then last week she invited me over to speak about US. She says I make her happy but she has doubts over me. So I told her that I can't be with anyone who has doubts with me and told her to make up her mind. We decided to take some time to figure things out. I've never been in such a break...she kissed me and didn't want to let you to confuse me anymore. We been texting a bit here and there. Is it best for me to move on or to wait around? I feel like we haven't have gotten a chance to let the relationship grow but at the same time I don't want to wait to get more heartbroken in the end? I need some ideas as idk what to do.
FLBuccaneer Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 I'm assuming by the subject, her birthday is close? If you are torn whether or not to reach our\t, DO NOT! It sounds like you have been put on the back burner when her time was sparse. A healthy relationship involves you helping her through this difficult time, not removing you. She is looking at you as something on her "to do list" so she got rid of you to make time for things more important than you. Think about that for a minute. You need to adopt the "walk and never look back" mentality. Especially after only a few months my friend. Be the alpha and know it's her loss. Do not initiate contact and if she reaches out, set a date and if she declines, tell her when she changes her mind to contact you. That's all you can do at this point. Keep us updated. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 If you hope to reconcile you have to talk to her. Otherwise, just assume it's over & move on. Don't just say happy Birthday because that is not a resolution.
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