thisisnuts2 Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 I've been dating a great guy for 5 months. he asked me to move in. It's that serious. I moved to live with him. However, I told him that I needed to go out of town for the day and handle some legal issues with my child. He freaked out that I left without him. He said since I left so fast -- he was very skeptical. He then started texting my attorney asking if I was really there. We fought all day -- via phone and text and he finally ended the night by saying he was "dying...thought he was having a heart attack". I remained out of town -- but I called 911 after him not responding to texts and calls for over an hour. He was fine. I called ems back to make sure. He never answered my calls or texts until this am. He then told me that he thought I slept around on him yesterday -- which is INSANE and then started begging me back. I love this man so much. Am I crazy?
Danda Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 Well, it's often the case that dysfunction attracts dysfunction, and this guy definitely sounds dysfunctional. For once I'll refrain from playing pseudo-psychiatrist, but at the very least "total drama queen" comes to mind for this guy.
todreaminblue Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 no you are not crazy .....he does need to learn some control though and to trust you a bit more...life happens.....and he needs to trust when you say you need to go somewhere, you actually are going somewhere, where you said you were going...have you ever done a runner on him?...where he didnt know where you were..... or you werent where you said you were going.. i think a real heart to heart is needed....or you could end up in a straightjacket.....or he will...or both of you might..deb
preraph Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 It's best you found out now instead of after you were married and had a kid. He's too insecure and irrational to make a good mate. I say get out. He will always believe you are cheating, so unless you are prepared to let him micromanage your every move, it's not going to work. You owe it to your child not to show him/her that a woman tolerates this type of craziness.
toscaroscura Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 This could be totally unwarranted, but I feel like this is mommame2 again.
FitChick Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 This could be totally unwarranted, but I feel like this is mommame2 again. Really? Post a link to an incriminating thread to support your suspicion.
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