vieve Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 So I went on a date with a guy two weeks ago. We met on coffee meets bagel (a dating type thing) and talked for about a month, when he lost his phone, and my phone number, but I thought he wasn't interested so I stopped texting him. He went through GREAT lengths to get my number back and explained what had happened which I found cute and showed his interest in knowing me. So we went on a date after about 2 months since initial contact. The date went well and we had a great time ending it with a bit of making out. The next night he had messaged me saying that he had had a great time and looked forward to seeing me again. I replied that I also had a good time and wanted to see him again also. 3 days later he messaged me again saying how he was thinking that he didn't know my last name and probably should, he also mentioned again how he wanted to see me, to which I replied that we would have to play a little name game the next time we got together. No response. I messaged him later in the week to see how he was he replied with very brief message and never asked how I was (which I find odd because he was always very gentlemanly). The week after our date Saturday night he messaged me late saying how he should have gone out to see me that night and once again that he'd like to see me soon. I am lost. Now it's been 2 weeks since our date and I haven't heard from him in almost a week. Any advice on whether or not I should pursue him, or why he would have gone so hot to so cold?
deathandtaxes Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 He said he looked forward to seeing you again but did he actually ask you out? If he didn't ask you out, he was just being polite. 1
angel.eyes Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 No. Don't pursue him! Sounds like you've been on and off the back burner depending on when a dry spell hits in his dating activities. Please hit the delete button the next time he texts with new tales of woe about losing his phone...blah, blah, blah...his Herculean efforts to prevent his lack of communication and disappearing acts. Don't give the time of day to a man who can't be bothered to date you for a month, pulls a disappearing act, then finally returns to ask you on a date before disappearing again. He's wasting your time. You deserve better.
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