Jordan185 Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 This girl said yes to a date with me and without hesitation. She even made sure we had eachothers number. I asked her on Saturday if she was free the next weekend but she had to close both nights but said that she could probably do it the next week. She said she would let me know when she got her work schedule. It's Wednesday and I haven't heard back and it's stressing me out because I don't if she hasn't got her schedule or if she doesn't want to do this.
Danda Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 Hmm, what about.. "Heya wondering when you get your work schedule, trying to plan some stuff and want to make sure I'm available on the night that works for you."
doeblin Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 Call her again, if she flakes again move on. Generally, if she doesn't reschedule, it means she isn't keen on you. When you ask a girl out for a date, make it a specific (time/place/activity). Giving her two options is good too. (Try not to seem too eager though.) "Hi, I just saw that Gallery X has an interesting exhibition. We should go there on Tuesday or Thursday! What do you think?" You get the idea.
sm2281 Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 This girl said yes to a date with me and without hesitation. She even made sure we had eachothers number. I asked her on Saturday if she was free the next weekend but she had to close both nights but said that she could probably do it the next week. She said she would let me know when she got her work schedule. It's Wednesday and I haven't heard back and it's stressing me out because I don't if she hasn't got her schedule or if she doesn't want to do this. Just text and reschedule. Then you will know. If she puts it off again, maybe its a no go. Or you might be right, maybe she just didnt get her schedule yet.
Author Jordan185 Posted December 11, 2014 Author Posted December 11, 2014 Call her again, if she flakes again move on. Generally, if she doesn't reschedule, it means she isn't keen on you. When you ask a girl out for a date, make it a specific (time/place/activity). Giving her two options is good too. (Try not to seem too eager though.) "Hi, I just saw that Gallery X has an interesting exhibition. We should go there on Tuesday or Thursday! What do you think?" You get the idea. Thanks I did try and she worked that weekend so she couldn't. She hadn't got her schedule for the next week either so that's I am waiting. I just don't know if she has got it yet or if she doesn't care.
doeblin Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 Thanks I did try and she worked that weekend so she couldn't. She hadn't got her schedule for the next week either so that's I am waiting. I just don't know if she has got it yet or if she doesn't care. If she works in a tight schedule field (like being a nurse), then it's completely understandable. Otherwise... you know the Ryan Gosling-rule? If Gosling called her today and said "Hey girl, wanna grab a frappuccino tomorrow?" Would she answer "Let me get back to you" ?
angel.eyes Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 Did you ask her when she would have her schedule? I would ask rather than jumping to conclusions.
Author Jordan185 Posted December 11, 2014 Author Posted December 11, 2014 If she works in a tight schedule field (like being a nurse), then it's completely understandable. Otherwise... you know the Ryan Gosling-rule? If Gosling called her today and said "Hey girl, wanna grab a frappuccino tomorrow?" Would she answer "Let me get back to you" ? I like that rule but here she honestly did work that weekend. So she couldn't just say ya I'll cancel work. This is one case where I dont know if she hasn't got her schedule back or if she just going to flake out
angel.eyes Posted December 11, 2014 Posted December 11, 2014 So what prevents you from asking her WHEN she'll have her schedule?
Author Jordan185 Posted December 12, 2014 Author Posted December 12, 2014 So what prevents you from asking her WHEN she'll have her schedule? Nothing will prevent me. What I am saying is I don't know when she gets her schedule or if she already has got it and then changed her mind.
doeblin Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 Nothing will prevent me. What I am saying is I don't know when she gets her schedule or if she already has got it and then changed her mind. Hmmm... maybe you should've kept the fire burning with a casual-charming-witty text every other day. Writing her everyday is clingy, but if you don't communicate at all, you will slip from her mind. So shoot her a funny text, not mentioning the date, and see how she reacts. If her response is warm & positive, ask her about the date again. (Assuming you haven't talked since last week.)
Lernaean_Hydra Posted December 12, 2014 Posted December 12, 2014 Nothing will prevent me. What I am saying is I don't know when she gets her schedule or if she already has got it and then changed her mind. Oh my god, you don't know WHEN because you won't ASK! Why can't you send her a quick "Hey, was hoping to reschedule our night out, wondering if you got your new schedule yet?" text?
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