should i bother?

[sweetskye]

Known each other for 1 month.

He works nights and i work days; i am in bed when he is finishing work and i am waking up when he is asleep.

We have week ends off at the same time, so we have been on 7 dates in the month we have known each other; usually friday-saturday and sometimes sunday.

His texts and calls during the week are one or two messages just to say hi and see how i am b ecus works a lot during the week but our time spent together is lengthy and we have long, stimulating discussions; he is usually texts me in the morning to see how i am and i text him to say good night at the end of the day.

My problem is his lack of communication during the week... Feels lonely sometimes, but he always explains that he is busy. I get it, i work , have class and dancing but i need that communication...

Is it worth continuing? Am i being too demanding?

Guys, your input will also help.

Thx

Edited December 11, 2014 by sweetskye

[Danda]

Just my opinion as always, but I think that if you find yourself asking this, then it's not worth it.

 

I used to work NOC shift as a CNA, and if I had been able to date my guy of choice, I would have made that **** work somehow lol.

 

But if you have that feeling like ugh this is a pain, then you might be dating for the sake of dating with this guy.

[Ann253]

I'm in the exact same situation. For me it works, I'm a single mom and my week days are usually busy. We txt in the mornings and at night and have a great time together on the weekends. But it really depends on what you want. If you are not getting what you need to make you happy move on.

[angel.eyes]

Have a conversation with him. Discuss what you need in terms of communication. Good communication is at the foundation of any healthy relationship.

[sweetskye]

Thanks for the feedback. I am going to talk to him and take it from there.