Ksspeerfisher Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Things were great for about a year. We saw each other once a month for four to ten days. Last October she started pulling away saying she needed to concentrate on her job and kids and that she didn't have time for a relationship. I said I understood she got mad and said a few hurtful things but I kept my mouth shut and took it. We still talked she said she still loved me and missed me but didn't have the time for a full blown romance. This was about the time her sister and brother-inlaw moved in with her. I found out after our break up she had sex a few times with a friend who just found out his wife was cheating on him. This made me think we were over and she lied to me about not having time for a relationship. So I started dating this girl from work and my ex started stalking me on FB and when ever my new girl would post on my wall my ex would text me and say all sorts of mean things about me and her. I was and am still inlove with my ex and so when she asked me to visit I did and we got back into our relationship and things went well for a few months then she started pulling away again and saying what we had wasn't real. So we broke up again and I went no contact. I blocked her on my phone because she was sending me very hateful and poisonous text about me with other girls. We hadn't talked in a month and her mom texted me saying my ex needed to talk to me about a bill that was still in my name. So since it had to do with money and had been a month I unblo her and texted her. She told me the problem and then started laying into me again and again. I got so angry I called her crazy and that she needed therapy. Last weekend I texted that I was sorry for what I said and that I didn't mean it that it was just she was tearing at me so much that I lashed ot to let her feel what she was doing to me. Her response was that she didn't do **** and it was all my fault. Correction I texted her last Saturday to say sorry and she was nice said I didn't do anything wrong up until the end when we argued and seemed to be putting her anger down. She went to work but when she got home she started texting me a bunch of hateful and vile things again. Said I had burnt out bridge and she didn't want to see or hear from me again. So I sent her the definition of burning ones bridges and stopped contact again. She texted me on Sunday saying that she needed time before she could respond to me so she could get past her and try and forgive me ( for what I dont know ) and I didn't respond. I'm confused as to why she's nice to me in the morning but so hateful in the evenings. I know there's this kid at work and he has a crush on her but has no chance with her ( we are both in our thirties and she doesn't like boys ) what was really confusing was that when we did talk after the no contact she yelled at me about blocking her and how she had sent me pictures and texts to find out how I was doing. What's her malfunction?
J2911 Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Things were great for about a year. We saw each other once a month for four to ten days. Last October she started pulling away saying she needed to concentrate on her job and kids and that she didn't have time for a relationship. I said I understood she got mad and said a few hurtful things but I kept my mouth shut and took it. We still talked she said she still loved me and missed me but didn't have the time for a full blown romance. This was about the time her sister and brother-inlaw moved in with her. I found out after our break up she had sex a few times with a friend who just found out his wife was cheating on him. This made me think we were over and she lied to me about not having time for a relationship. So I started dating this girl from work and my ex started stalking me on FB and when ever my new girl would post on my wall my ex would text me and say all sorts of mean things about me and her. I was and am still inlove with my ex and so when she asked me to visit I did and we got back into our relationship and things went well for a few months then she started pulling away again and saying what we had wasn't real. So we broke up again and I went no contact. I blocked her on my phone because she was sending me very hateful and poisonous text about me with other girls. We hadn't talked in a month and her mom texted me saying my ex needed to talk to me about a bill that was still in my name. So since it had to do with money and had been a month I unblo her and texted her. She told me the problem and then started laying into me again and again. I got so angry I called her crazy and that she needed therapy. Last weekend I texted that I was sorry for what I said and that I didn't mean it that it was just she was tearing at me so much that I lashed ot to let her feel what she was doing to me. Her response was that she didn't do **** and it was all my fault. Correction I texted her last Saturday to say sorry and she was nice said I didn't do anything wrong up until the end when we argued and seemed to be putting her anger down. She went to work but when she got home she started texting me a bunch of hateful and vile things again. Said I had burnt out bridge and she didn't want to see or hear from me again. So I sent her the definition of burning ones bridges and stopped contact again. She texted me on Sunday saying that she needed time before she could respond to me so she could get past her and try and forgive me ( for what I dont know ) and I didn't respond. I'm confused as to why she's nice to me in the morning but so hateful in the evenings. I know there's this kid at work and he has a crush on her but has no chance with her ( we are both in our thirties and she doesn't like boys ) what was really confusing was that when we did talk after the no contact she yelled at me about blocking her and how she had sent me pictures and texts to find out how I was doing. What's her malfunction? Reading this makes me think she is very unstable , bipolor spectrum . If I were you , I'd consider no contact and move on from this individual.
Author Ksspeerfisher Posted December 14, 2014 Author Posted December 14, 2014 Yeah I know she has anxiety issues. Knew that from the start and she's on an independence kick. She told me she doesn't want to be a burden to me and to have her life in order before she gets into a serious relationship. But the fact that she was so upset about me dating another women and doesn't even acknowledge the fact she did the same thing shows me she's still a selfish little girl.
Author Ksspeerfisher Posted January 5, 2015 Author Posted January 5, 2015 She texted me on New Years day that she wants to be friends after weeks of telling me how it's all my fault and that what we had was never real. She doesn't want to be just friends but friends. I told her no not with her.
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