thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 This girl. Is purpslh trying to not go out with me what the hell did i do wrong i want to ask what her deal is. Can you rain check for next Friday? Nope I'll keep you posted on a red hike date.. Don't do tomorrow anymore.My Thursday got a little complicated now. Huh What can i say to her
Chemist Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 This girl. Is purpslh trying to not go out with me what the hell did i do wrong i want to ask what her deal is. Can you rain check for next Friday? Nope I'll keep you posted on a red hike date.. Don't do tomorrow anymore.My Thursday got a little complicated now. Huh What can i say to her "I am free these days, X..Y..Z are any good for you?" She's not flaking, she offered another day.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 She is flaking this is 2nd week straight and shes online okcupid right now so shes playing ganes what do i do? Call her out or what?
deathandtaxes Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Grammar for god's sake grammar! Have you gone out before? Has she flaked before? I have a general two flake and I'm done policy. 1
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 What can i say to her to change mind or cLl her out? We only went on 1 date
Redhead14 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 She is flaking this is 2nd week straight and shes online okcupid right now so shes playing ganes what do i do? Call her out or what? If she were interested enough, she'd accept by now. And, if you ask her again and she accepts, you were likely the second or third choice. You haven't met her yet anyway, so why get all twisted up. I'd move on. You're frustrated already.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 What should i say #lol girl you dont have to play u dont want to miss out tomorrow:)
Redhead14 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 What should i say #lol girl you dont have to play u dont want to miss out tomorrow:) You call her, ask her to go out on X date, at X time. Period. If she says no, she says no.
Danda Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 She is flaking this is 2nd week straight and shes online okcupid right now so shes playing ganes what do i do? Call her out or what? If you "call her out" for not clearing her entire schedule for you for a first date, yet having the 'audacity' to be online, you will come across as a total nutjob. Please take a step back and a deep breath and think this situation through.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 OkLol you dont gotta play wouldnt want to miss out tomorrow night itll be fun Say that? I mean we only went out 1 time she was very interested what im not gonna bother keep beong flaked
GemmaUK Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 I don't understand your post. As in technically can't understand it. If you met once and she is flaking then she isn't into you. 1
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 Ok but she kept sayinf let me know anytime unwanna hangout ans thanked me for the timr
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 What do i say to get her to go out
Redhead14 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 OkLol you dont gotta play wouldnt want to miss out tomorrow night itll be fun Say that? I mean we only went out 1 time she was very interested what im not gonna bother keep beong flaked Saying/doing things to "make" someone go out with you, makes you sound/appear desperate. Just plain say, "hey, I had a great time last time we met, will you go with me to (someplace cool, nice on such an such a day (whenever)? Be specific about what you're proposing for the date if it's something really fun or different. Don't get all cutesy/cocky, etc. it's not attractive especially when you're just asking for a second date.
GemmaUK Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 What do i say to get her to go out Ask her for a date again? Does she like hiking? Maybe she would like for you to be gentlemanly and take her out for something she can be girly for? Me - I would happily go hiking - but I am apparently feminine all over even though I try to be tough! Ha!
angel.eyes Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Ok but she kept sayinf let me know anytime unwanna hangout ans thanked me for the timr BUT...you aren't able to get a second date. So the reality is she's no longer interested. Seriously, it was one date. Just move on instead of calling her out or whatever you're proposing to do to express your displeasure. Let it go.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 U dont understand this has been horrible for me i keep getti g ig ored or flaked on when i did nothing wrong. Im gonna go psycho unless i can get some assistance can sl eone here help me on this can i talk to soneone on skype i need soneone to talk to
Danda Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 U dont understand this has been horrible for me i keep getti g ig ored or flaked on when i did nothing wrong. Im gonna go psycho unless i can get some assistance can sl eone here help me on this can i talk to soneone on skype i need soneone to talk to Okay not trying to be mean at all, but you sound like you're not mentally and emotionally ready to be dating. It's extremely normal and common to have many, many initial messages or first dates before finding someone you click with. You shouldn't be flipping out over it. And if you are this desperate, sensitive and unstable, then you might be unknowingly freaking women out on the first date because it might be really obvious. You might need to get some help before you are ready for dating, like professional help. Again I don't mean that in a mean way, but dating takes a lot of self-security and rational thinking, so you don't take everything personally are start wiggin out when a few first dates don't turn into marriage or something.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 Can i talk to someone on here please?
Redhead14 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 (edited) Can i talk to someone on here please? We are talking to you! Just call her, ask her out again. If she says no, you don't push it anymore. You can't convince someone to go out with you! Either they want to or they don't. Harrassing, whining, smooth-talking, whatever, doesn't work. And if she does, great, but do you really want to date someone who went out with you just to shut you up or because you promised her a great time and then have a great time on your dime and not talk to you again? Edited December 10, 2014 by Redhead14
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 Whats ur skype name
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 U dont understand this has been horrible for me i keep getti g ig ored or flaked on when i did nothing wrong. Im gonna go psycho unless i can get some assistance can sl eone here help me on this can i talk to soneone on skype i need soneone to talk to I'm not even going to rhyme this, but with over 150 posts, I want to believe you aren't a moron and you are truly interested in hearing advice. 1) Before you hit "Submit Reply", re-read your post and use correct punctuation and proper grammar. You're probably asking why. There are numerous reasons, but some of them include: There is a correlation between proper communication techniques and intelligence. Right now, you are displaying a lack of both.Advice is best given when the people you asked advice from can understand what it is you are actually saying. 2) Don't allow women to rule your emotions. If you can't do this, you have no business trying to date women. Practice mindfulness and reflect on your actions in a manner that will allow you to become a better man before you present yourself to the dating world. Everyone fails at this at some point. Failure is not an excuse to give up. It's an excuse to try again, and try harder. 3) Once you have accomplished step 2, return to step 1 and post your progress / ask for advice. You'll find that with these simple steps, you might get a 2nd date. Best of luck to you.
Author thelonewolflegend Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 Please add me on skype masterpaulthelefebd
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