InsaneTrombone Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 (edited) Multiple times through conversation with her, she would mention how she would be disappointed if I was by her work place and didn't come visit her. How if I happened to be in the area while she was working, she'd just be upset I didn't come see her. Is this just hoopla / crap talk? We haven't met in person yet and our first date will be in 2 weeks. Been talking for over a month through snapchat and texts. (Yes I'd have loved to take her out earlier but time issues / constraints between work and college...not the point though) Her work is a bit of a drive from me, probably 30 minutes. Any ideas how I could turn this into something maybe? Because I have absolutely no reason to go up there other than to see her lol I wouldn't want to drive up there just to visit her while shes at work and just say hi talk for 5 minutes and be off doing my own thing because shes still on the clock. And as far as I know, she also clocks out relatively late. Edited December 10, 2014 by InsaneTrombone
DivorcedDad123 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Don't meet her ,in person for the first time, at where she works. If you two get along and continue after your first date,then you could visit her at work,but only after you've gone out a few times. Visiting her before your date would just be awkward. 2
angel.eyes Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Go on an actual date before you start dropping in on someone's place of employment. If you can find time for numerous exchanges on Snapchat, texting, etc., and can find a way to drop by her job, I'm wondering why you both can't actually meet for post-work drinks, coffee, a meal or whatever. Delays generally work against you. 2
d0nnivain Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 I agree that your 1st meting should not be at her place of employment. I supposed I would add a caveat that it might be OK if she was a bartender or did something similar where the job is interacting with the customers, but a 9-5 office setting, stay away until you are more established.
Danda Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 It might be something as cute and innocent as wanting to 'show you off' to some of her female coworkers hehe. But yeah I agree, not appropriate, even if she's too twitterpated at the moment to realize that.
Diezel Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Multiple times through conversation with her, she would mention how she would be disappointed if I was by her work place and didn't come visit her. How if I happened to be in the area while she was working, she'd just be upset I didn't come see her. Is this just hoopla / crap talk? From the sounds of it, it doesn't sound like you'll just "happen to be in the area", so what's the problem? 1
Author InsaneTrombone Posted December 10, 2014 Author Posted December 10, 2014 From the sounds of it, it doesn't sound like you'll just "happen to be in the area", so what's the problem? Just strikes me as odd she keeps mentioning this work thing is all. I did drive by, maybe 10 minutes away from it - to pick something up. I mentioned this and she said good thing she wasnt working or she'd be upset I didn't visit.
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