supergirl7777 Posted March 22, 2005 Posted March 22, 2005 [font=arial][/font][color=green][/color]Hey you guys so the theme is break ups so here i go... My boyfriend and i of a year and a couple of months just broke up a month ago. He told me that he was confused and that he was not in love with me anymore, he also told me that he needed freedom so i gave it to him due to the fact that i felt wrong being with him without him wanting me. So i let him go, they say if you love something to let it go so i did. The thing that hurt me the most was his indifference i mean i was crying when i broke up with him but he didnt seem to care he just walked out of my life and he hasent even called or anything, yeahi told him not to call but if he really loved me he wouldve done it. Yeah i dont want to seem perfect and all because i'm not i do admit that i also had fault in the break up but the reason that i would get very mad at him is because he would always lie to me about his ex i mean one day he went to the movies with another girl and lied to me that girl which hates me and is now a very good friend of his has such a bad reputation, guys I'm only 17 and will be going to college in september but I'm so hurt please give me advice!!!!!!!!!!!
ReluctantRomeo Posted March 22, 2005 Posted March 22, 2005 Hi Super, Well, break-ups are always painful, even more so when you've been played and lied to. Find activities to distract yourself. Your temptation right now will be to spend your time thinking about him and your relationship - this kind of "processing" is natural and healthy if you do it in moderation, but the main emphasis now needs to be thinking about yourself and your future. So, give yourself a makeover, better yourself in some way, learn something you've always wanted to, do something special with your friends to create a lasting memory for you to treasure when you go to college, do stuff to prepare yourself for college. When you do think about the pain, find ways to process it which help you prepare for your future rather than rehashing the past. You know "next time, I'll..." And another tip - remember the pain of being played and lied to and promise yourself never to do this to some unsuspecting guy. It hurts us just as much. You've got a great future ahead of you girl. Go for it!
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