Confused6789 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and we usually get along and love eachother. The other day myself and some of his friends went out for a party, including a female friend of his who he had a sole sexual past with. I was originally comfortable with this as I respected that they had known each other longer. Anyway we had all been drinking excessively and decided to crash, (this was out camping) the bed my boyfriend and I were going to share had blown up so there was only one for us three. He crawled into it and she was on the other side and I tried it get in the middle but there was no room, eventually he pushed me off onto the floor where all alcohol had been spilt and I had no blanket. I got annoyed and said 'if your going ti do this i question the relationship, do you think I'm comfortable having you sleep next to another girl' he just laughed and so I got extremely mad (still drunk at this time) and broke up with him and told him he was an inconsiderate bastard and that I hated him, then I broke down and he ignored me. The next day things were normal again and we cuddled and slept together and made plans to see eachother one night this week, we got along really well until later in the day. He randomly brought it up again saying he can't believe how I acted the mature thing would've been to climb on he girls other side (there was no room) and I said imagine you in my position would you be happy and he said I'm not insecure like you. He dropped me home and before he left we hugged and then I sent a message that just stated I was comfortable in the situation, I apologised for my overreaction but I wasn't happy about him being in bed with another girl even if he claimed it was innocent. He never responded and I haven't heard from him in 3 days. I told his mum what had happened and she said he has been at home eating and sleeping and doing nothing else and if he told her what happened she wouldn't be defending him. She told me he was stubborn and to wait a week but I'm not sure. Why would he be ignoring me I've made effort to see him, is this him breaking up? Opinions appreciated
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