Dropkickbilly Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 So I dated this girl for 3 months. The final month being long distance. We loved each other. We were both of each others first relationship and we lost our virginity to each other. She needed space because I was too clingy and paranoid about what shes doing. Then a week later she just ended it. I begged and pleaded for about a week then tried NC rule. Once that started these pictures of her and these guys who I know shes not dating but liked her came up on social media. This made me break the NC rule right away and she would either not respond or say stop worrying. I said some rude things that I would not normally say to her. In a month I tried to contact her 4 times and she would not respond. One of them being a long detailed apology email. Now I have been in NC rule for a month. I'm sure it will be a long time because of everything that has happened from the begging and pleading to the start of NC rule. Do you think she will ever contact me? We always told each other from the day we started dating to the day it ended that we will always be friends no matter what.
BC1980 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 She's made it pretty clear that she does not want further contact with you. I'm sorry. I know it hurts, but all you can do is walk away. Don't contact her again.
Chi townD Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Even though it was a short relationship, it was intense because you lost your virginity to her and you cared about her. I don't care who you are but the combination of the two creates strong, intense feelings. I mean, you gave yourself fully to her. You were at your most vulnerable with her. What she did with posting those pics was a crappy thing to do, but you can chalk it up as lessons learned on the importance of true NC. Apparently, she wasn't as invested in you as you were to her. Time to heal and move on dude. The fact that she hasn't responded will only help you to heal more quickly because you're not getting breadcrumbs. Hang in there, dude!
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