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So I met this guy on OLD a couple days before Thanksgiving. We have talked everyday since and after a day or two he gave me his phone number to text him. I really get along with this guy over internet chatting/texting, but I know it is different in real life. The day I texted him I told him I was available to hang out Monday or Tuesday of that week. He said that he would have to let me know cause he had to go out to dinner with his boss or something. So Monday and Tuesday go by and he never mentions a word about hanging out.

 

We texted everyday still! I just figured maybe he was busy both days and just didn't bother to tell me so that we could reschedule. This past Saturday I told him I really would love to meet him and told him i'm available this Monday to hang out. He said Monday works perfect! So of course I was ecstatic, I finally get to meet this guy that I get along with really well! He's the only guy I really have been talking to online that I want to meet!

 

Monday rolls around and he adds me on Facebook and all that jazz. First of all I knew we were going to hang out on Monday, but he never told me what we were doing. Not that we were going out to eat, meeting for coffee, anything! I just knew that we were suppose to see each other. So it's fairly disappointing that he didn't tell me what the plan was. 5 o clock rolls around and he said he's getting really swamped at work and is going to try and make it out in time to see me. Well I didn't hear from him for about 2 hours and when he finally texted me he was apologizing about how messed up tonight was.

 

I told him it was no big deal, I was a little disappointed that I didn't get to meet him, but I understand. Now in his texts he was asking how he could make it up to me. I simply put, ice cream will make it better. lol He was like...sounds like a plan! He never picked a day to reschedule or see when i'm available. I didn't text him back after he said that and I haven't heard from him at all today. Usually we end our convos with "i'm going to bed, goodnight" so I don't know if he thought I was mad at him or what, but I haven't heard from him. Why would this guy put so much effort into talking to me/adding me on fb, to not make an effort to see me? I just don't get. I'm so disappointed.

 

So sorry for the length of this post, I just had to vent my frustrations. Thanks everyone

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Who knows why he's behaving this way? Catfishing you? Social anxiety? Countless possibilities, really.

 

The fact is, he's not willing to meet. Stop wasting your time texting him, and go look for someone who actually wants to meet and date. You aren't on the site to collect virtual texting buddies.

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You know how some people are "internet warriors" and seem so passionate and riled up in an online debate, but if the topic came up in real life, they'd just keep their head down and mouth shut?

 

Well I think there are also "internet lovers" who can be extremely flirty, romantic, etc and in pursuit and interested and so on - but only on the internet. When it comes to 'real life' they chicken the hell out.

 

Normally my first guess would have been "secretly married" but since he added you to his FaceBook, I bypassed that guess and kept going in my brain.

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I think you are probably about #3 in priority. I wouldn't play along with this guy. He had his chance.



 

 

 





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Thanks everyone for the replies. It gave me confidence in my decision to move on from him! It's just disappointing because I really was excited to meet him...oh well! On to the next

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