Do Christians believe in no kissing before marriage?

[MapleWish]

I wonder about that, to me kissing is the most natural thing to do when you really like or love someone. My bf is 25 and was raised baptist and been with him like 2 months and will not kiss me YET, that being said he's been married once before and is now divorced, he waited like the Duggars for that first real married kiss but to me since he's already been married and waited for that kiss, it shouldn't matter as much now that that it's done and over (this kiss is) and he's divorced. How can people resist kissing? You see it everywhere and it just seems innocent and natural when you like someone, you see it in movies when the guy picks the girl up for a date or gives her flowers or proposes, just seems hard to put off something like that, one of the most beautiful signs of affection

[d0nnivain]

Some do. Some don't. It's not a universal belief nor a universal practice.

 

Your BF however, feels that physical contact is something reserved for marriage. If you don't share his belief, let him go find somebody who does because staying together will simply make you angry & frustrated.

[Georgia2014]

I'm baptist. I'm also divorced and if I really like a guy I will kiss him.

[shadow_stang]

My advice to almost every relationship problem/question: Sit down and talk it out. That's the best way to handle almost everything relationship wise. For this particular situation, don't worry about what all Christians believe, what matters is what he personally believes. Don't approach him in a way that will make him feel like he needs to defend his belief, just sit down, watch a movie together or something, hug him and stuff, be like: "Babe, can we talk about something? You mean a lot to me, and there are ways I'd like to show how much I care," etc.

 

 

Maybe not in those exact words, but you get what I'm saying.