ralfgarnett Posted December 9, 2014 Posted December 9, 2014 Wobbling please help, Thursday is my birday, as you know she has mentioned us going out for lunch or dinner either is fine by me, not spoken to her now for nearly 2 weeks so not even certain if she still has plans or not, my first inclination was not to break NC and ignore her if invited, BUT a bit of me is now thinking what the hell if she asks why not go as I have nothing to lose and who knows I might even have something to gain, a few pressies, meal out, and what if she has news for me that she might like to try again in some way and this could be her way of doing it, also I am putting myself back in her shop window and should be taking the chance for her to see what a great chap Ralf is and fall for me all over again, am I being unrealistic ?, am I deluded ?, am I just so lost and lonely that I would go just for the company even though the chances are heavily in favour of breadcrumbs, don't get me wrong im not sitting here worried our panicking about it, after weeks of certainty about it a bit of me is thinking what harm could it do ?, after all we have been married over 17 years and had a really good relationship and we have been pretty well amicable since we separated, anyway I hope this all makes sense and as ever dear people I wait your views and sound advice.
NopeNah Posted December 9, 2014 Posted December 9, 2014 Wobbling please help, Thursday is my birday, as you know she has mentioned us going out for lunch or dinner either is fine by me, not spoken to her now for nearly 2 weeks so not even certain if she still has plans or not, my first inclination was not to break NC and ignore her if invited, BUT a bit of me is now thinking what the hell if she asks why not go as I have nothing to lose and who knows I might even have something to gain, a few pressies, meal out, and what if she has news for me that she might like to try again in some way and this could be her way of doing it, also I am putting myself back in her shop window and should be taking the chance for her to see what a great chap Ralf is and fall for me all over again, am I being unrealistic ?, am I deluded ?, am I just so lost and lonely that I would go just for the company even though the chances are heavily in favour of breadcrumbs, don't get me wrong im not sitting here worried our panicking about it, after weeks of certainty about it a bit of me is thinking what harm could it do ?, after all we have been married over 17 years and had a really good relationship and we have been pretty well amicable since we separated, anyway I hope this all makes sense and as ever dear people I wait your views and sound advice. Don't.....Just...don't,man! The goal is not to be the Option of their affection,but the Object.
NopeNah Posted December 9, 2014 Posted December 9, 2014 Don't.....Just...don't,man! The goal is not to be the Option of their affection,but the Object. plus note...you're posting about it....on a website for relationships ....So...you DO care.
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