iseestars Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 This girl I am interested in and me have that flirt a lot, text a lot, fall off, and repeat. This has been this way for like a year and half. Sometimes we have a falling out and don't speak for awhile and she will post subliminals on facebook about me. Or even though we don't ever have anything official she seems to get jealous of me talking to or about other girls. we are currently in a fall off stage and are not talking but I can't get her out of my mind. Right when she came into my life I got her number and was drunk and totally put it on the line and I got the dreaded "your a great guy buuuut...." It was like two days into actually hanging out and she is the type that enjoys being chased so I know that threw a wrench into it coming out and asking her to date me. when we are together we usually have a good time have tons in common and have a similar weird sense of humor. This last time though she really seemed interested and was flirting a lot, but I was the one who took a step back this time, I don't want to get rejected again, but at the same time all these people were asking what is going on between us, and in all honesty I don't know. I feel like I am getting strung along, but then again I havent made a move in a long time. I know if I txtd her right now she would reply, but I dont know.
deathandtaxes Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Have you even asked her out on a proper date? Or are you not wanting to date this lady?
mammasita Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Have you even asked her out on a proper date? Or are you not wanting to date this lady? Um, so yeah OP......sounds like you put yourself here. Ask her out or don't.
Author iseestars Posted December 8, 2014 Author Posted December 8, 2014 Have you even asked her out on a proper date? Or are you not wanting to date this lady? I have to a concert and she very excitedly went but it ended on a bad note. And I kno I put myself in this spot and it sucks. I kno attraction has an expiration date but I'm so scared of rejection from her. I love our friendship but want more. She seems interested but then again ha
PaperCrane Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 I have to a concert and she very excitedly went but it ended on a bad note. And I kno I put myself in this spot and it sucks. I kno attraction has an expiration date but I'm so scared of rejection from her. I love our friendship but want more. She seems interested but then again ha Don't be like me and wait too long. You're in a falling off stage so this can work for you I think. Ask her flat out "I want to pick you up at 7 for [x], be ready!" or you can always just do the "I'd love to take you out for dinner." or anything that implicates a date and treat it that way. If she says "no" just follow your normal falling off stage routine of NC, which is basically what both of you have been doing is just NCing each other. If you ask before this, she'll think about it during the NC and might tip it in your favor.
Author iseestars Posted December 8, 2014 Author Posted December 8, 2014 Sounds like a plan and does NC stand for not caring?
BlueIris Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 (edited) I have to a concert and she very excitedly went but it ended on a bad note. And I kno I put myself in this spot and it sucks. I kno attraction has an expiration date but I'm so scared of rejection from her. I love our friendship but want more. She seems interested but then again ha Never mind. I just read your previous posts. Edited December 8, 2014 by BlueIris
Author iseestars Posted December 8, 2014 Author Posted December 8, 2014 Never mind. I just read your previous posts. What do you mean?
BlueIris Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Sorry. I said something that was answered in your previous posts, so it was irrelevant.
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