Clarkysmith12 Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Hi I have not spoken to my stbx wife in over a year, her whole family haven't spoken to me in nearly 2 years (nasty break up), I saw her sister the other day and she kept trying to get my attention, then she came over and spoke to me asking how I was and if im still working, we then said bye to each other, just find it strange as they have always wnet out there way to be bitter to me, any advice would be good.
Dontfindme Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Maybe she was just curious - and since it has been a while, the bitterness may have faded a bit.
d0nnivain Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 She was either trying to be polite or she wanted to confirm your employment status for her sister so that your STBX could get alimony or child support or whatever compensation she's seeking in the divorce. 1
Author Clarkysmith12 Posted December 8, 2014 Author Posted December 8, 2014 She cant claim any money as we share care and she signed a legal document to say she wouldn't claim csa.
LostOne1 Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Last time my ex's sister did this, it seemed like she was hoping I was doing awful so she could tell her sister how good a decision she made. I'd just ignore it, be polite but not invest to much time and move on with your day. It's like seeing a very old friend that you never really liked much.
d0nnivain Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 She cant claim any money as we share care and she signed a legal document to say she wouldn't claim csa. Then perhaps the SIL was simply being polite. As unheard of as that might be, It's still possible.
lakerman34 Posted December 10, 2014 Posted December 10, 2014 Hi I have not spoken to my stbx wife in over a year, her whole family haven't spoken to me in nearly 2 years (nasty break up), I saw her sister the other day and she kept trying to get my attention, then she came over and spoke to me asking how I was and if im still working, we then said bye to each other, just find it strange as they have always wnet out there way to be bitter to me, any advice would be good. Sounds like she was just trying to be nice. HAHA reminds me of a girl my little brother used to date back in his high school days (about 5-6 years ago). The girl's twin sister wanted to suck my d!ck SO badly. Slightly unrelated, but reminded me of that.
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