adiamond Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 I was dumped about 4 months ago from a 4 year relationship and I feel like I've mostly accepted it (we've been NC the entire time). And I'm not hysterically crying anymore. But sometimes, I look at past messages and I just miss how funny he was and how he made me laugh so much. Is this normal? If I started dating again would it be rebound? How will I know when I'm totally over him?
EgoJoe Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 When you feel indifferent to the pain. It's okay to see other people casually just be guarded and don't lead them on. I miss the good times with my crazy cheating ex and it's only been a few weeks but I've come to terms, gained perspective and I'm seeing other women very casually.
Jimmyjackson Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Yeah I'm the same with my ex girlfriend, I've accepted she won't come back but I do often think of the memories and occasionally re-read past messages of sweet things she said to me. I think these habits will deteriorate in due time though for the both of us...
David87 Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 Yeah its normal to miss him, but delete those messages. They do you more harm than good. 1
irresolute Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 You're not no contact if you're still reading those messages! Read the no contact guide. 1
asiangirl Posted December 13, 2014 Posted December 13, 2014 Ms. OP, I read your other thread, you mentioned you are a virgin. So this guy you dated for 4 years, you didn't sleep with him? Whoa, then I am sure he must loves you, because 4 years with you and no sex, that is rare to find in a guy. I am sorry about your break up OP, wish you good luck in future dating.
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