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I've posted on here a few times abouty ex... we broke up at the end of August after only dating for a couple of months. Long story short – we met through a friend and play on the same softball team. He's very logical and withdrawn, I'm very outgoing and very much a romantic... Ultimately, our relationship ended because we couldn't really communicate all that well with each other. I went no contact for about three months. Within that time I've seen him about once every week or so, at games. We were cordial, but was clearly awkward. I still felt deep down that I kind of cared about him and wanted to bring some closure to our situation, or just see what his take was on why it didn't work so I could fully move on. He texted me late night aftern I hung out with him and our friends one night... I suggested we meet to talk and he did. He seemed more affected by the break up than I thought.. and invitede out for weekly dinners with our team (an invite I stopped getting after the breakup).. I saw him Friday, again out with friends. We texted here and there and he said people were talking asking if we were hooking up again? (bc we met).. We got a good laigh at it and that was that. Another friend of ours texted me that night too (male) and said that I should just tell him how I feel, and he doesn't think my ex would say no to trying again... he also said it's obvious my ex loves me.. but to me it isn't!! So confused... what do I do..

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I've posted on here a few times abouty ex... we broke up at the end of August after only dating for a couple of months. Long story short – we met through a friend and play on the same softball team. He's very logical and withdrawn, I'm very outgoing and very much a romantic... Ultimately, our relationship ended because we couldn't really communicate all that well with each other. I went no contact for about three months. Within that time I've seen him about once every week or so, at games. We were cordial, but was clearly awkward. I still felt deep down that I kind of cared about him and wanted to bring some closure to our situation, or just see what his take was on why it didn't work so I could fully move on. He texted me late night aftern I hung out with him and our friends one night... I suggested we meet to talk and he did. He seemed more affected by the break up than I thought.. and invitede out for weekly dinners with our team (an invite I stopped getting after the breakup).. I saw him Friday, again out with friends. We texted here and there and he said people were talking asking if we were hooking up again? (bc we met).. We got a good laigh at it and that was that. Another friend of ours texted me that night too (male) and said that I should just tell him how I feel, and he doesn't think my ex would say no to trying again... he also said it's obvious my ex loves me.. but to me it isn't!! So confused... what do I do..

 

You already stated why it didn't work. Unless something has changed it wont work again. You're very different people accept that as the reason you broke up and be thankful it was very early on.

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