nikittyy Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 -I work with this guy. -he is eighteen, I'm sixteen. To sum past events up: I got his phone number, we texted back and forth, he came over to my house. Seemed nervous the entire time, fidgeting/shifting sitting positions, when he shook my brothers hand apparently his hand was limp and sweaty. Fast forward a few weeks: we don't text anymore, and on Friday I called him and asked if we could go to a movie that night. He said he had already told his friend he would hang out with him, and "I'm not really sure where I'm supposed to be." (Okay... Wtf does that even mean). I basically gave up any and all hope on him, even though I know he's extremely shy/quiet. Two days ago I happened to get the chance to speak with someone who knows/is friends with him, (she used to work with him) and she said that in the four years she's known him, she has never seen him with a girl, talk to a girl, or even walk next to one. She said she didn't think he is/would be playing me. He apparently hangs out with the same two guys from school and smokes pot all the time. She says he's always been really quiet, and has never had a girlfriend or had any girl over to his house. I started to silently wonder if he's gay, but he might have confidence issues. People at work always make fun of him for having no muscles, and his shyness. He's also pretty short, like 5'5. I think he also might be depressed, but I can't really jump to conclusions on that. I seriously have no idea what to do, and I sort of want to give up on him but there's still this stupid little piece of hope in my chest that he'll turn around. Why is he acting like this though? Did he blow me off because he isn't interested? I don't understand any of his actions, and I do not know if they are due to his lack of experience. Is he using the mentality "well if I ignore her she will go away"? Link to post Share on other sites
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