spanishchick00 Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 I went on a first date last night with a guy I met on okcupid. We went out to a dance club, had a few drinks, talked, etc, etc. He couldn't keep his hands off me at the club, we held hands, he carried me to my car since I was wearing heels and my feet were killing me. Anyway at the end of the night, we made out for a bit, and he told me, "I wanted to kiss you all night." Before that, he told me it was, "nice to meet me." He didn't really mention any specific plans to meet up next time during our date, but he did say that we should go skydiving sometime. Does this sound like he was into me? Do you think he'll contact me again?
zen2475 Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 I'm glad you had an enjoyable time with him. Only time will tell if he contacts you again, but for the meantime stay on OKC and keep living your fabulous life. If he contacts you, that's great, but if he doesn't, just bear in mind you had a nice experience, but don't take it personally if he doesn't call. For whatever reason, it didn't work for him, and that has nothing to do with you.
Author spanishchick00 Posted December 8, 2014 Author Posted December 8, 2014 Yeah, I had a great night. I never had a first kiss on a first date EVER. There has been other guys from OKC, that it was nice having the chance to meet them, to get to know them, etc, etc, but I usually got a hug and never a kiss-then they would usually say something like-"I'll contact you again" which was a blow-off. So, the whole part of making out with this particular guy was kind of surprising. But, I'm just going to go with the flow and not have any expectations.
losangelena Posted December 8, 2014 Posted December 8, 2014 I wouldn't use the fact that he kissed you as a sign that he'll contact you again. I've had guys who only gave me a hug follow up, and those who made out quite passionately who I never heard from again. You'll just have to wait.
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